You Need To Know These 14 Things Before Dating A Gemini

Dec 03, 2018 by apost team

While Gemini may have a bad reputation for being two-faced, that's not exactly true. Gemini possesses dual souls, and while that means that dating them is also an adventure, it can be hard to know where they stand. Check out this advice before you start dating a Gemini.

14. They Thrive on New Sensations

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When a Gemini gets an idea in their head, they'll pursue it with unbridled enthusiasm. That might mean that dating one can feel like being a passenger in someone else's life, the upside is that they're always likely to be game for whatever ideas you have. If it sounds exciting, a Gemini is likely to be up for it.

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13. They Will Flirt

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Don't take it as a personal insult. Gemini love to play, and flirting is just another game to them. Their significant others will eventually have to curb their jealousy and recognize that flirtation and intimacy are two different things.

12. They're Inconsistent

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A Gemini is all about a new adventure... until they aren't. A Gemini may commit to plans, but a last minute cancellation is always a distinct possibility.

11. They Won't Shut Up

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Just like with flirting, arguments are a game to Gemini. You can expect them to argue over just about everything, but don't take it personally. For a Gemini, a good discussion is just another intellectual exercise.

10. Their Minds Work on a Whole Other Level

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Gemini are highly analytical and while that leaves them with an incredibly strong self of self, it can also lead them to second-guess themselves and require a high amount of reassurance from loved ones.

9. They Need Their Own Space

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Gemini are constantly curious and always exploring and they need partners that will give them the space to go off on their own and pursue their interests.

8. There's Never Enough Time

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Gemini get excited about just about everything, and that means that they're often juggling half a dozen projects at a time. Get used to a partner whose interests are diverse but also scattered.

7. They Reach High

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Gemini want to succeed, and while they're easily distracted, they're also highly driven. A partner who isn't equally as passionate will likely lose a Gemini's interest quickly.

6. But They Lose Interest Quickly

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Even a Gemini's mind can only hold so many interests, and that means that they rotate through passions quickly. Expect your partner to work through hobbies like tissue paper.

5. They'll Find Your Secrets

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The combination of inquisitiveness and analytical thinking is a dangerous mix. Gemini want to know everything, and they have the means to suss out all the latest gossip.

4. Their Tongues Are Sharp

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Gemini partners are exceedingly clever, but their impressive minds aren't always tempered by empathy. They can be stubborn in an argument and sometimes cut too sharp without meaning to.

3. They Don't Really "Get" Money

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"Impulsive" is maybe the best word to describe a Gemini, but that also means they sometimes don't think their decisions through. When a notion hits them, they strike, and that means they can burn through a lot of money in a short amount of time.

2. They Can be Wild in Bed

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The constant demand for stimulation that Gemini possess extends to the bedroom. They like to mix things up, and adventurous lovers are far more likely to hold their attention.

1. They Have a Lot of Friends

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Get ready to meet a lot of people. Gemini might not build especially close ones, but they collect friends compulsively, and you can expect your social calendar to be booked year round.

Is this an accurate depiction of a Gemini? Have you ever dated a Gemini or are you one yourself? Let us know in the comments and pass this along to friends and loved ones who are Gemini as well!