You Gave Her No Choice But To Give Up On You

Jan 10, 2019 by apost team

She tried her best to provide you with everything that she could. But what did you do for her? You allotted her absolutely nothing in exchange. You broke the trust between the two of you so many times that it was impossible for her to trust you again. It just wasn’t possible. And for that, you failed.

You completely ignored the fact that she always went above and beyond for your relationship each and every time she was tested. She could move a mountain for you if you asked. She always chose to put your needs over her own, but you still chose to provide her with nothing in return.

She had no other way around it: she decided to completely let go of you. She was doing the work for two people in a relationship that was meant to be mutual. She kept it going with her spark and dedication. It feels like you were merely a spectator in the relationship rather than a part of it. Why would anyone stand for this behavior?

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She provided you with everything you could ever ask for. You were always spoiled with attention and affection. She always made sure that you were taken care of. You never left the house without a goodbye kiss, but she never received one. You totally took her kindness for granted when you should have held her tight and refused to quit. You never deserved anything that she blessed upon you.

You were too selfish to understand that she was the only thing making you into a better person. Slowly and slowly, you became a burden to her. She was no longer able to carry the relationship on her back. She started to be unable to bear it any longer. Even though she gave you chance after chance, you always blew it because you figured she’d give you another one.

She ended up giving up on you because you didn’t make her happy anymore and only made her sad. She knew that she didn’t want to be trapped into this type of relationship. The sad part is that she began to blame herself for the way you made her feel. She felt like the relationship crumbling was her fault alone. She thought maybe she wasn’t good enough for you based off of your actions.

It’s funny that you believed she’d never leave you and would give you unlimited chances. But this time was goodbye for good. You don’t deserve any more chances because she knows you're never going to change. Your lack of maturity and responsibility caused her to let go for real this time.

She decided to let go because you took her for granted. You always thought that you could underappreciate her and get away with it. You gave her too many empty promises that were never followed through. She put her trust in you, and you completely failed her.

She decided to let go because she had no other choice. She allowed you to take the time to figure out how to be a better partner, but you never evolved into someone that could maintain a long-term relationship. She warned you that this was coming.

She decided to let go of you because you didn’t put any effort into the relationship. She was tired of being the only one that was trying to make things work. She carried the weight of the relationship alone for so long that she just couldn't bear to take it any longer.

Although you were happy in your time spent with her, you didn’t enjoy the work that went into the process. You weren’t willing to sacrifice or make decisions for the betterment of the relationship and were too selfish to see what you were doing and what you had in front of you.

She decided to let go of you because she realized her own worth. She doesn’t want to spend her time with people that will give her less than she deserves. Any fool that would ignore her needs and wants isn’t someone that she wants to be with.

One day she knows that she will find her knight in shining armor. Her Prince Charming. But she knows now that that person just isn't you and never will be because you refuse to grow into the person that she deserves. She finally decided that she will look around other places for someone who fulfills all of her hopes and dreams. She knows now that that person isn’t you. So she decided to let you go.

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