Why It's So Hard For Her To Believe That You Love Her

Nov 27, 2018 by apost team

There is a good reason that she doesn’t truly believe that you are in love with her. It is because she has been dealing with dozens of broken promises her whole life. It is because she is so tired of having to work hard to keep a relationship going, only to end up heartbroken and betrayed when she put her time into the wrong one.

She is so tired of being the best one in the relationship when all it gets her is stress and sadness. She cannot believe that you are in love with her because she has been damaged so badly she doesn’t believe she deserves it. She has dealt with loss too much to ever think it is possible to be truly loved. Even though you do love her, she is completely ready to lose you like she lost everyone else.

She has no reason to believe that you really do adore her because, in her point of view, there are tons of reasons that she isn’t lovable. She has been through so many things in her short lifetime. She has been tormented, bent, broken, and used. However, she is still going and trying. She wants to be happy in a relationship. She is taking it one step at a time, day after day. But please do not think that it is always that easy for her. She has inner struggles that she never speaks of to you. She often wishes she could lock herself away in a room and stay away from the people who want to manipulate and use her.

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She often feels so helpless in life. She really does want to believe that you truly do have a deep love for her, but it is just so hard for her to accept that it is true. She loves the idea that someone could fall for her and treat her the way that she wants. But she has gotten her hopes up only for them to be dashed to pieces time and again. She is terrified of being utterly disappointed again.

She sometimes believes that anything in her life that is good is not really meant to be. She is a doubter because of the hand she has been dealt. Everything may seem perfect right now, but she is always waiting for the other shoe to drop. She may also be afraid that you really love her because she doesn’t know if she is capable of loving you back the way that you deserve. She could be scared to death of what true love means. She may have screwed up love before and is simply afraid it is going to happen again.

She may have even broken a heart or two herself. If so, she knows that she has the capability of damaging another person’s life. It scares her to know what she has done in the past, and she may be worried that karma will hurt her for it now. She may actually think that if she allows herself to truly let you in that you will hurt her as payback from the universe. It’s a terrifying thought to her, and she doesn’t know what to do.

She may be feeling so guilty about her past that she doesn’t believe that things can work out. Maybe she has convinced herself that love just isn’t meant for her. Maybe she unintentionally hurt someone so badly in the past that she is now convinced she should never feel true love. There are a ton of reasons why she won’t trust your devotion to her. It isn’t you - it is her. It may not be easy for her to even admit that fact.

It may just be your place to make sure she knows she is well-deserving of love and affection. You may need to remind her of the many personality traits that are worthy of love. You may want to tell her that she would not be afraid of love and that when she allows it into her life, she will experience the greatest feeling there is to feel. You may be the one who needs to push her to open her eyes up to the many wonders of love. You could be the one who is destined to make her feel unafraid of love and affection. Be ready to appease the fears and uncertainty she feels all of the time. You will have to show her love in ways that she is not used to. When you do, she will open up and blossom into a person who gives their all. She is worth it - she just needs time and patience to get there.

Is it hard for you to accept the love you deserve? Leave us a comment and make sure to pass this on to anyone who tends to feel undeserving of love!