What Makes A Woman End An Relationship

Nov 07, 2018 by apost team

When you ask a man why he broke up with his girlfriend, the answer is usually simple. Either too much fighting and arguing was the reason, or maybe another woman. But where the 'problem' came from, he often doesn't say.

Women are vigilant and therefore immediately notice when things are not going as well in the relationship as they used to. Lack of attention is often a reason they complain. Or that the man is away too much or that the couple is living more like roommates instead of lovers. All these things are things that can really eat away at a woman.

The connection you often have in the beginning is missing and the woman sees the relationship crumble more and more. Small compliments, a flirting blink, a bouquet of flowers or a simple "thank you" are missing far too often and keenly missed by the woman. The man should not have to be asked for such little romantic gestures, otherwise they aren't worth even half as much.

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Most men don't mean it that way, but far too often they show their women that they take them and what they do for granted. Too much indifference can be the death of the relationship, even if it is only felt by one party.

Love means that the other person is important to you, an integral part of your life, your priority! The problem is that most men feel criticized when women talk about wishes and worries. The announcement that a woman would like to talk already causes a small panic in a man.

Even if the woman only cautiously approaches the topic, the alarm bells go off in the man's head and the defenses are raised immediately. So if she only wants to improve and refresh the relationship, he sees it as the beginning of a quarrel and he enters the conversation accordingly.

Since most men see every attempt at improvement as the beginning of an argument, they flee when they sense a serious conversation. But this is exactly what makes women feel pushed away and neglected. A conversation is never possible and then later the fact that they would have liked to talk about is lamented.

Statistically, 30 percent more women end the relationship than men. Divorces are also more frequently filed by women, and they are also the ones who usually want to go to marriage counseling. Men are then often quite surprised, because they rarely see the problems and thus a reason to work on them - or even to separate.

The visible surprise is taken as another sign that too little attention is paid to the partner and the relationship. Apart from the fact that it can also be taken to mean that the male partner is not prepared to work on the problems - because if there are no problems, there's nothing to be done!

In general it can be said that women cope better on their own than their male counterparts. In separations, men often suffer more. One of the reasons for this is that they don'tt trust their friends and relatives enough to open up on an emotional level. Women, on the other hand, have no problem talking to their friends about something like this. On the contrary.

Among women, there are networks that make emotional support extremely easy. With a nice movie in the background and lots of snacks, girlfriends listen to the woman's story, let her cry and support her and then life moves on. On the other hand, when you're drinking yourself into a coma and bottling up your feelings, you can't process the whole thing as well. Even a one-night stand doesn't help with heartaches.

There's a saying in America: "Happy Wife, Happy Life." This means that having a happy girlfriend or wife is the secret to having a happy relationship and therefor life.

Most men still need to learn about this. Being conscious of and attentive to your partner is the be-all and end-all for a happy relationship. If it works, the relationship can last a lifetime. It is important, however, that both are happy! Show this article to your friends if you liked it and make the men in your circle aware of these things!