What Does A Woman Want From Her Man - These 7 Simple Things

Nov 30, 2018 by apost team

Being a guy, it is hard to hear that we don’t really know what women want. It’s frustrating to be told that “understanding a woman is like trying to understand rocket science.” We don’t want to be intimidated before we even try to get with a girl. I hate the generalization of men and women; that men are easy to understand, but women are not.

Women do not have to be hard to understand at all. Just because there are some men out there that cannot grasp what women want doesn’t mean we are all like that. So for those of you who understand that a relationship takes effort and time, here are seven things that are sure to make any woman happy and content. They really can work if you pay attention.

1. Be Empathetic

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I had a bunch of arguments with my girlfriend before I realized what I was doing wrong. While I was there for her as much as I could be, both physically and emotionally, I did not try to understand her as well as I could have.

Now I have come to realize when she needs me the most and how to be there when she does. Yes, it will take time to truly understand when she really needs you, but it will be well worth it in the end when she sees you for the wonderful person you are.

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2. Be Emotional

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It really is okay to show emotions to women. Women actually really love to see the softer and kinder side of their man. I have always cried on the shoulder of my girlfriend and allowed her to see the softer side of my heart. I refused to keep a shield up with her.

No woman wants their man to act like they never let anything bother them. It is absolutely fine to be vulnerable- you will not be judged, only loved. Don’t be afraid to shed a tear at a sad part in a movie or if you hear bad news.

3. Make Time For Her

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Giving the gift of time is one of the best presents anyone can receive. A man taking time out for a woman, especially when he already has a busy schedule, shows that he is able to make an effort for her and put her as a priority.

No matter how busy you are, make a day where it is just about you and her. Priorities are extremely important in a relationship. She needs to know where she stands with you.

4. Be Loyal

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Loyalty is an extremely important trait that will help keep a relationship strong. When you do not have a loyal partner that you can trust, your whole relationship can go right out if the window the moment it is gone.

Everyone needs to realize that in order for a relationship to grow and thrive, each partner must remain completely dedicated and loyal to the other one. You have to know you can count on each other.

5. Be Strong For Each Other

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While it is okay to be emotional, a man should always mentally and physically protect their woman. You should be their strength whenever they need it, even without them having to ask. It is natural for a good man to want to protect his woman at all times. You want to be there when they need you, always and forever.

6. Be Stable

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This doesn’t necessarily translate into money. A woman wants security in a relationship in other ways, such as a solid future with her man. It is a big turn-on for women when their man knows what he wants out of life and how he will go about getting it.

A passion for a better future is important. So guys, decide what you want to do with your life and make a solid plan. Try not to be indecisive.

7. Be Honest

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You cannot build a relationship on a lie. When you are honest with a woman, you will begin to build a trusting relationship from the start. If you do make a mistake, own up to it. It is always better to be honest right up front than to have her find out a lie later on.

This may include being open and honest when it comes to your past, as well. You should also never try to be another person in front of her. This is just being fake and will lead to trouble later. Being who you really are will allow her to love you for you, not someone else.

What do you think, ladies? Do you agree with what I have said? Tell me below in the comments below. Feel free to add to the list and then pass this on for others to learn!