This Is What You Made Of Her When You Broke Her

Dec 12, 2018 by apost team

She was in love with you, and what did you do to her? You managed to break her. You should have been doing everything you could to make her life as perfect as possible.

Instead, you decided you would do completely the opposite.

She never deserved the things that you decided to do to her. She was never able to dodge your many bullets. You were able to hit her squarely in her heart. In doing so, you shattered it into thousands of tiny pieces. 

You did so many things to her we can’t help but think that maybe you fed off of the heartbreak and sadness of others. It seems as though you actually enjoyed seeing someone feeling down on themselves. You had no problem making her feel as though she was at the lowest point in her life.

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You didn’t care for a second what happened to her when you decided it was over. You had no regard for anyone but yourself. All she ever wanted was to be there for you and take care of you.

But you didn’t care about any of that. There is probably nothing worse than seeing a wonderful girl change into someone else because of the actions of the wrong guy. In fact, it is a heartbreaking event to witness.

Sure, everyone changes after we have gotten our hearts broken. But if you are completely broken as a person, you pretty much change completely. The lessons that you learned during the time with someone who can do that to you are etched in your brain forever. It is impossible to let it go. You managed to turn this caring, trusting soul into a cynical, mistrustful shadow of her old self.

That is because she trusted you. She trusted you completely, and you did nothing but betray her trust over and over. She thinks that she should have been smarter. Maybe she should have been warier in the beginning. But it doesn’t matter now- she is broken. She does not wear her heart on her sleeve as she used to do.

Her goal now is to guard her heart. She isn’t about to welcome anyone into her life anymore. Instead, your treatment of her caused her to build up walls so incredibly high that no one is going to be able to scale them without major effort. This is all your fault, and it is a darn shame. She only trusts herself now. She knows that others aren’t trustworthy.

Again, that is because she put so much trust in you only to have you destroy it. She saw that she should not trust someone so blindly again. However, she has realized that she has to trust herself from now on. She knows that she is the only one who is not going to let her down.

She has decided that she isn’t going to love anyone again. That is all she ever wanted. She wanted a true, pure love that lasts and lasts. But now she sees that love can hurt terribly. Because you showed her just how terrible loving someone can be. She has decided that love isn’t worth the time or effort any longer.

She wasn’t a person who was good at faking how she felt. But she put on a brave front when she was with you. She laughed when she felt like crying. She put on a brave smile even when her heart was breaking. She pushed through because she truly loved you and wanted it to work out.

Now she simply bottles up everything that she feels. She puts on a brave face and goes about her day acting as if everything is perfectly fine. She is terrified that if she doesn’t, she will break into thousands of tiny pieces that won’t ever go back together again.

She does not want anyone to know just how she feels. She may say that she is fine, but deep down it is killing her to act this way. Her heart is shattered and she believes that love will never happen again. She used to be one of the happiest women in the world. She always believed that love was everything.

She thought that love could conquer the world. But you managed to show her the opposite. She learned that love cannot always come out on top. You turned her into the type of person she wished she would never become. Sad, alone, cynical, and bitter.

You basically turned her into a zombie. She walks and talks, but it feels as though her soul has left her. She feels cold inside. Her happiness has been drained. It’s all because of how you treated her. How you used her and then discarded her like trash.

You drew her down deep into your own darkness. You promised her the world. Once you had her where you wanted her, you backed out on every promise you made. Now, you have left her with no light and no love.

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