This Is What Will Happen If You Go Back To Him, Even When You Know You Shouldn't

Dec 08, 2018 by apost team

The universe keeps bringing you back together, or so you think. It doesn't matter how much you try to avoid each other, somehow you find yourselves in arms reach and you don't know how to make it stop.

You told yourself over and over that you won't go back to him ever again. You tell yourself that he's in the past and that he isn't going to be able to hurt you again. You have given up chance after chance to him and he's abused them all.

He says he's changed and that he has his life together now. He is ready to treat you like a queen. Just one more try is all he wants. He's willing to try new things and do anything you want, even if it means going out of his comfort zone. He's going to be there emotionally for you this time. He's going to value you because you mean the world to him and he didn't know what to do when he lost you.

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This time he's going to be honest with you. He admits that he knows that he hurt you and wants to make it right this time around. He's not going to lie to you or deceive you. He is going to be an open book and be willing to talk about anything that you need or want to. Um, don't believe this crock of lies! He's the same and always will be. He is great at telling you exactly what you need and wants to hear. He's playing you off of your emotions just so you will go back to him.

Everything will be great, to begin with. I mean it was the first time around too, right? You'll even go as far as to questions yourself as to why you even broke up to begin with. He's going to be with you through thick and thin, to begin with. Just wait for it, it's coming.

Eventually, the nice guy is going away and the same old guy is coming back out. He'll lose that front and you'll see his true self again, the one you already knew. This is the guy that already made your life hell. Don't let him do it again!

You already know this, you just won't admit it to yourself. Change is not easy and isn't made overnight. You just want to love him so bad that you aren't willing to accept it. You want him to be that person that you can trust and depend on. You feel that urge to give it one more try. You start thinking that maybe he has changed, maybe he can love you like you think he can, and make he'll finally value your love for him.

You know it's not true but you desperately want to believe it is. You still love him and know that somewhere deep down inside of him he has the ingredients to make the perfect mix. You give yourself the excuse that he's lived a hard life and that's why he has acted as he has in the past. You feel sorry for him and always try to see things from his point of view.

You have a great heart and full soul. This is why you can't let him see through your soul or take advantage of you. Don't fall for his lies again. This is all a facade. It's great that you have a heart of gold, but that doesn't mean that everyone else has one, especially him. If his heart was as pure as yours, he would've have made the effort to treat your right the first go around.

If you return to him, nothing is going to change. You're going to pick things up right where you left off.

You'll have a few ups but they are going got be followed by his normal responses to situations. He'll never be as interested in the relationship as you are. His respect, attention, and love will never be reciprocated as much as you are putting in.

If you go back, don't expect him to change your life. He won't. It's not going to be any better. You are sure to feel lonely. You won't be better off than when you were alone. You're going to be taken for granted by him. You're sure to cry, maybe more than ever. You're going to experience pain again. And, most of all you're going to wish to be single again.

He's going to break you, again. If you return to him, you're not going to be happy. He's not capable of making you happy. He's not the right person for you. If you go back, you're giving him the control of your happiness. This isn't right. You should always control your own happiness.

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