This Is How You Can Tell If A Man Is Emotionally Immature

Dec 08, 2018 by apost team

"This is me, love it or leave it." 

These are the kinds of words that an emotionally immature man will say when fighting with his lover.

The real problem is that everyone tries to be their best at the start of a relationship so it's hard to see where a man really stands at that point. Here is a list of 6 ways to recognize an emotionally immature man:

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It doesn't matter where he is at, he is usually unsatisfied, unhappy, or depressed. He thinks that the world is against him and that he's the only one with problems. He thinks he's the victim. This is because he is seeking out to have attention.

He wants a woman that'll give him a shoulder to cry on. He wants someone that is going to give his life a purpose. These are the things that fill his needs. This is a horrible type of relationship for any woman. She needs to abandon ship as soon as she realizes what is going on.

We all know someone who is a momma's boy. It doesn't matter if he hates his momma, he'll always tell a woman how his momma would or wouldn't have done something. He constantly compares his mom to the woman he's with. She'll always be the one that he looks up to and you'll never be able to top her.

It doesn't matter how great what you give him is, what his mom gave him will always be better. He wants his mom to approve him and you won't much say in what happens in their relationship. He usually picks someone to date that is either a lot like his mom or the complete opposite of her.

The things that you seek out for the occasional fun are the things that are his life and he can't live without them. Alcohol, gambling, and other addictions are what brings him the most joy.

An immature man will seek out a woman that is simply an adrenaline rush for him. He's only interested in women who will make his life interesting - like a high school crush or the married woman. This can give him an adrenaline rush that almost feels like a high.

After the rush crashes, he'll move on trying to find his next high. Being independent isn't something he's in to. He'll always be looking for help from someone else because he hasn't developed himself and a lot of the times, he doesn't ever intend to.

He seeks out people that aren't in the best situations. They help him to forget about the problems he is facing. This, in turn, makes him feel better about himself. He even goes as far as to find a woman that needs him so that he can be the prince charming that comes in to save her.

He'll help her to feel good about everything. He makes things better. This is easy for him because it helps him to forget his own problems. Helping others is a great escape for him, for a while. But eventually, his help won't be needed anymore.

After that, he's confused. He doesn't even know what to do with himself. He only knows how to love someone who's broken.

He only has one goal. His goal is to be as successful as possible in his job. He believes that everything else in his life is a waste of time. Everyone should pursue their goals but there are limits you must set in order to have a happy life and relationships with others.

He thinks that his career must come before anyone or anything else. This means it comes before the emotional needs and even the dreams of those he cares about. This man will need a woman who is only supportive of him, one who really doesn't have her own life. If the woman decides to put herself first, he'll be quite offended and hurt.

He has confidence and it's shown through his arrogance. He'll spend a ton of time in front of a mirror and cares more about how he looks than anything else. In reality, he is scared that there are others that look better than him and are more successful than he is. 

He'll give compliments to his woman only to feed his own ego. Once he stops, he'll make her feel insecure and have her feeling lack of confidence in everything she does.

What kind of emotionally immature men have you dated in your lifetime? Let us know in the comments! Don't forget to send this to your friends and family so they know the type of man to stay away from.