These 10 Small Efforts Will Reveal Your Forever Person

Jan 07, 2019 by apost team

Everyone’s looking for someone special, a soul mate, a person to share their life with forever! But there’s a number of key things to look out for when you’re vetting the people inviting you to coffee or over to Netflix; no one wants to waste time, and keeping track of these micro-efforts can clue you into whether or not your current date is really your Forever Person!

First of all, your Forever Person should be focused on you. That means no phone at the table, and not being distracted by any screens when you’re right in front of them! They should check on you at least every once in a while to see if your needs are being met. After all, they can’t know if you’re doing well if they don’t ask! Assuming that you’re okay isn’t the same as them asking, and your Forever Person ought to know the difference. You can tell if they’re Forever Person material if they check on you throughout the day; if you wake up to a “Good morning!” text from your lover, it’s a very good sign!

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Your Forever Person should take planning into their own hands, too. Everyone likes surprises and things to be done for them that take thought and care, and your Forever Person should be doing these things by themselves! Taking you out to a movie, planning a nice dinner, you get the idea. And sex is another area where your Forever Person ought to be focused on you: your pleasure, your satisfaction, your feelings. A good Forever Person is not only going to do these things for you, but will be excited about it!

Not to say that your Forever Person should only be interested in sex. Instead, if your date is Forever Person material then they’ll shower you with affection, physical and emotional, without expecting it to lead to hotter, heavier stuff. They’ll put an effort into their appearance, and take your desires in stride. They might wear cologne you love, or a shirt you bought them. In any case, they’ll show you how much you mean to them outside the bedroom just like they show you in the bedroom.

Finally, a Forever Person for you will know all of the things that are important to you. Family, coffee type, favorite movie, the works. What you love will become the things that they love, too, and all of these things will only help the two of you grow closer together. At the end of the day, you need to be the top priority, and your Forever Person will know this and show it; they’ll have dinner ready for you, or give you a massage at the end of a long day. You alone will be on their mind and you’ll know it not just from what they say but how they act!

Will you keep an eye out for these small efforts when you’re looking for your soul mate, your Forever Person? Let us know in the comments and be sure to spread the word - we all deserve a little happiness.