The Truth Is, The Death Of Our Relationship Was Your Fault

Dec 14, 2018 by apost team

I want you to know the truth. You have had a major impact on my life. You have changed my life. My life is better because I'm no longer in your life.

Our relationship died because you couldn't stand up to the demons that haunt you. You couldn't make a change. You couldn't own up to the fact that you care more about yourself than you ever did me. You put your friends ahead of me and our relationship. You put your desires ahead of everything else.

I would drop anything to make you smile. You were my top priority. I was at the bottom of your list. If I knew then what I know now, I would never have had been in this relationship in the first place. It would have saved me time and heartache.

With you gone, I have the time to breathe and think. I have finally realized that all the insecurities plaguing our relationship came from you, not me.

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I want to congratulate you. You just lost the best thing that ever happened to you, and you don't even realize it. Congratulations on being a master manipulator and making me think I had failed our relationship with my own insecurities.

You totally avoided taking any responsibility for how you acted throughout our entire relationship. By blaming me. It deflected all blame off the real issue. You. So, congratulations on being you.

I hope I haunt you for the rest of your life. As you walk away, I hope you realize that I was a true blessing in your life. I gave you the space to be the best you possible when we were together.

There will never be another woman who's willing to put up with your bullshit and stick around for so long. Those love letters I sent or the care package you got should be reminders of what you left behind. I was at your side through life's darkest moments and that's the hardest part of this entire thing.

Loving a person doesn't mean destroying them. I tried to earn your love with every ounce of my being. But, to you, it wasn't enough. Never enough. No one can force you to love me like I did you.

I felt so empty. I tried to help you fight your inner demons. I helped you through your inner battles. I tried to show you what love was. I thought I was the girl who would have given you the chance to change your life and your habits.

You thought I had changed the game and made life better. The truth though was that no matter what I did, or the lessons I learned, you never learned how to love anyone else besides you. It is something you will never learn.

Throughout our entire relationship, my love grew for you every day even through the worst. You never loved me. You are only capable of loving yourself and no one else.

I hope you get the chance to feel the pain you caused me. Maybe that's why you can't stay in one relationship very long. You are so insecure and broken that you can't accept the pain you cause.

Don't worry about me. I know my self-worth and I have gotten past all the bullshit you threw at me. I will know how to deal with the next narcissist who enters my life. I won't hold that person down. Go on and get your kicks from some other girl.

But you need to remember. What goes around comes around. I hope that means I can watch you go down just like you watched me fall in our relationship.

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