The Reason Why God Connects You To Certain People But Then Lets Them Go

Sep 10, 2018 by apost team

You can’t always explain why you sometimes just click with one person, even when they are complete strangers. I feel this is because God gives us the men, women, and children we need to have in our lives at that very moment. These people may teach us some important lesson we need to learn about ourselves or life.

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There is a reason why God allows you to get attached to one certain person over another. When I think back on the people I came across in my life, there are so many that were obviously there to teach me a valuable lesson or play an important role. What we don’t always realize is that some of these people are in our lives for only a little while.

That is because it is their duty to show us a different way or path and then go.

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Sometimes God sends you the person that you need right at the moment you need them. That’s the beauty of having faith in Him. He knows you are looking for answers, so he sends you the person or persons who will help you find them. He enlightens you by giving you friends that will bring out your very best. He supplies you with the people who He knows will pull you out of a dark time when you need it the most. 

The problem is, we often try to make these temporary people stay in our lives for good when they just aren’t meant to. They are only meant to stay for a couple days or a couple years. God put them there to help us grow for the people who do stay in our lives for good.

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We have a tendency to become very frustrated when we can’t keep these people in our lives. We don’t know why God would allow them to leave us when they were so amazing. You have to look at it from another perspective. If those friends or lovers overstayed their intended welcome, they might change. They were only meant to be with you a short period of time for a reason. We need faith to help let go of the people who aren’t meant to stay forever. Allow God to bring people in and out of your life.

Trying to make changes will usually result in an unhappy ending for everyone involved. The person sent to you could be your angel that helped you through a difficult time or someone who was meant to heal you from pain. When they are through with their mission, they fly away.

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These friends and family may be showing you how to let some things go. Their part is over and you need to have faith that God will soon bring you the next person that is meant to be with you during the next phase of your life. I know we will all be able to recognize the person who should be with us forever. We will finally understand that sometimes people are here to touch just our hand, not our soul.

Others are sent to us to touch our heart and soul, forever.

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