The Love Of Your Life Will Only Come After The Mistake Of Your Life
Dec 11, 2018 by apost team
It's a relationship where one heart gave everything while another heart gave no affection at all.
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Unrequited love is the most unfulfilling and dangerous of loves. It’s a painful reminder of the loneliness that we each feel. It’s a relationship where one heart gave everything while another heart gave no affection at all. It ends when we finally give up and realize that love will never happen.
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Why didn’t we see all of the warning signs? Were they not there in the beginning?
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Yes, all of the signs were there, but they were only visible to those who wish to see them. None of us are perfect. Often we desire people that aren’t right for us. We feverishly try to make them fit into a box of our choosing. We do so because we are not yet ready for true love. We need to learn how to appreciate and cherish.
It is through living and sometimes suffering that we are able to learn and understand.
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Perhaps we are being guided along by fate or we have some sort of destiny to fulfill. Maybe there is a path we much take in order to see what is right for us. Maybe we have to find the wrongs ones initially so we can recognize the one with whom we belong. When I think about a broken relationship, I think about something that was not right for us. I think about a situation we should have abandoned long before it became toxic enough to hurt us.
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We both had our reasons for not quitting, but it turns that love may have had other ideas. It’s possible we held on for so long because our hearts needed the misery to spur us onto a path of change. We needed to be different so that we could learn to truly love. No matter how often we try to make it better or fix the issues plaguing our relationships, it never works. Is that because it was never meant to be?
Was our relationship always doomed to end? If so, perhaps its purpose was to break us apart so we can be born anew.
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To re-emerge as a person capable of true love is not an easy task. It takes a lot of sleepless nights, soul-searching and determination to forge ourselves into the people we need to be. For only then will we have the ability to experience the love we crave.
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