The Love Of Your Life Usually Happens After The Mistake Of Your Life

May 23, 2019 by apost team

You think you met the love of your life only to have it blow up in your face. Heartbreak is never an easy thing to face. It hurts. You give your heart and soul to someone only to have it broken. You look back and realize you should have seen it coming long before. You saw the destructive behavior. You saw the destruction up ahead. But you ignored it because you thought you would be the one who was different.

You thought you could change him.

You thought one day he would wake up and realize all you had done for him. You thought he would realize how much you loved him at his worst. One day, he would see how horrible he had been treating you and realize he needs to be better.

Your friends warn you about what you are not seeing. Your friends tell you he isn’t worth it.

But you don’t see the bad. You only see the good. Your love will only let you see the good. You told yourself he was just so busy and that’s why he never had time to text you or call you.

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But he had time. He could have made the time. He just chose not to make time for you. You never saw that. You never saw the times he made you feel stupid. You never realized how he made you depend on him. You never saw how controlling he was. You never saw that he never intended on giving you what you needed out of a relationship.

He never planned on loving you like you needed to be loved. He was never going to give you the future you had planned for the both of you.

When you meet the love of your life, you won’t be ignored. He will make you feel like you are worth the time and effort. He won’t wait hours before texting or calling you back. He will be patient with you and understand the path you have been on. You will worry.

You will think he is too good to be true. You will take longer to open up and that’s okay. He will understand.

Eventually, he will make you feel like yourself again.

He will make you feel whole again. He’s going to make you feel like you are more than worth his time. He will make you feel wanted. You will realize that sometimes the love of your life comes after your biggest mistake. He will make your painful past feel like a journey you had to go on and it was worth it.

Did you meet your love after a horrible relationship? How did it go? What struggles did you face? We would love to hear your story!