Sometimes It’s Best To Delete Their Messages, Erase Their Number And Move On

Aug 21, 2018 by apost team

Do you find yourself rereading your old messages with him over and over again? Why do you even still have his number in the first place? You have almost nothing to gain from latching onto these old memories. By doing these things, you’re putting yourself in a bad situation and not accepting the facts: the relationship between you two is dead. You’re never getting back together, and it’s time to learn how to move on.

Although moving on sounds easier than it actually is, it’s time. No one is judging you for being hesitant and fearful of moving forward with your life. You fell for someone hard, and things just didn’t work the way you want them to. That can be a hard pill to swallow.

A relationship can be an emotional rollercoaster when it doesn’t work out. You spent so much time forcing yourself to be vulnerable with another person and going through the motions of getting to know each other. You put your heart and soul out there just to go through disappointment and relationship struggles.

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However, one day you’ll be lucky enough to meet someone that everything seems to work out with. You meet someone who seems to really understand you, and he seems to reciprocate your feelings. He works to gain your affection, asks you out on dates, and uses his charm to get into your life. You’re helpless to avoid his advances, so you agree to date him. You two get to know each other by talking and hanging out. Slowly, before you knew what was happening, you fall in love.

This experience is one of the most amazing things you’ve ever felt in your whole life. You finally find out what it means to be fully invested in another person. It’s interesting to you that love is exactly how you’ve always heard it described yet so vastly different at the same time. You’re excited and thrilled by it all. You have a newfound passion. Your outlook on life has and it makes you feel like you’re on top of the world every day that you have your partner next to you.

Things always start off amazing when you’re in a relationship. It’s an endless cycle of feeling high constantly on their love and passion. You ride an endless wave of happiness that you don’t want to end. The beginning of a relationship is often referred to as the “honeymoon period.”

You feel that nothing bad could ever go wrong between the two of you. You don’t see any challenges, hardships or issues that could come into play. You feel like you and your partner are unstoppable together. Your love feels so strong that it could make it through anything that comes in your way.

After a while, the passion of the relationship begins to die. The happiness and excitement begin to drift away as you start to enter the real period of the relationship. You realize that it wasn’t perfect, to begin with. You’re scared because you have realized that your relationship isn’t an invincible force. The bickering and arguments start between the two of you about things that don’t matter. They start as little squabbles but morph into something more serious.

It’s starting to make sense to you that the strength of your relationship isn’t as deep as you thought. You begin to have the thought that maybe the two of you aren’t meant to be after all. Then the worst possible scenario occurs, where you realize that the struggles are too much to handle and the two of you decide to end the relationship. Even though it hurts, you call it quits.

But here you are now. Even though the relationship is over, you haven’t taken yourself fully out of the situation. Your attachment to this failed relationship is toxic, however. It’s important to move on for the sake of your own life. It’s hard to realize that although things didn’t work out, you will find love in the future with another partner. But in order to find love again, you need to move on from the past.

Does this ring true for you? Are your friends going through something similar? Pass this on to and help someone who could benefit from this insight. Do you have a story you would like to tell us? We would love to hear from you in the comments.