She Might Overthink Everything, But She Overloves Everything, Too

Nov 07, 2018 by apost team

You probably know someone like this. The girl who is always overthinking everything. She analyzes and considers every possible scenario that has to do with her past, present, and future.

She will always rewind the past to pick apart what could have gone better or what could have gone worse. She will think about the possible outcomes of her future. She thinks about everything that should have been and the things that still could be.

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The problem is that her overthinking gets in the way of her trusting people. She starts to doubt everyone and their intentions. She has a difficult time believing that someone will actually keep their promises to her. Even when someone means well and proves it to her over and over again, she will still have her doubts.

She will always expect the worse in life because she received a lot of it in the past. She believes that expecting the worse is really the only real way to be prepared for the things that could happen to her in the future. She has been disappointed by too many people and events in the past to really put her faith in what will happen next. She is terrified of just going with the flow because she wants to always be in control of the situation.

Because of her past, she will pick apart and examine every single word that comes out of your mouth. She is looking for hidden meanings to your words and thoughts. She will look for something that is not always even there to find.

This type of girl will always doubt that you really care for her, and she will always be looking for constant reassurance that you love her. She will wonder if she is enough for you and will worry every day that she is not.

This makes her a difficult girl to be in a relationship with. She has a very complex mind that partners will find challenging. When you realize this, your first impulse may just be to get out of the relationship quickly. You will think that her way is just too much for you to handle, and you won’t want to get in too deep with this relationship.

But before you make your way out the door, you really need to hear this next part. Despite all of the stress she may bring there is one major thing to remember. Yes, she will overthink things, but she will also over-love. I can guarantee that she will over-love you, too.

All you really have to do is be patient and put in an effort to understand this type of girl. You will quickly see that despite her insecurities, she has an amazingly huge, caring heart. She will love you with all that she has. She has many different, wonderful layers to her personality, and you will enjoy them when you finally understand what they all mean.

You will realize that this type of girl is not selfish in the least. She will always put her needs before anyone else. You will find that she is actually an empath who will take care of you and everyone else before she takes care of herself. She will always be there for you when you need someone. She will back you up when you are in trouble and be there for you when you are down.

This type of girl may be hard to deal with in the beginning, we know. But once you get past her walls you will see that she will always hold your hand no matter how rough life gets. She doesn’t give up on the person she loves. She will be an endless pillar of strength and support throughout your relationship. She will provide you with endless amounts of love.

She will give you her very best if you can just hang in there long enough to see it. If you treat her right, she will allow you to see all of her vulnerabilities. She will open up in a way she has never done before. She will be able to teach you what unconditional love really means. You will become the world to her.

When a girl overthinks things, she will also over-love. You’re going to want to be there when she does. So take it slow and be patient. She may seem a little over-the-top in the beginning, and you may have to constantly reassure her that you love and care for her. But if you do all of this with love and patience, we promise it will be worth it in the end.

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