Real Men Protect Their Women At All Costs - If He's Abusive, He's Not A Real Man

Dec 12, 2018 by apost team

I don’t know what happened to some people as they were growing up. It is important that we all understand one thing - abuse is never about love.

It is also important that the world stops romanticizing abuse. Too many women think that true love requires pain and sacrifice. Sure, it does require compromise. But love should never be hard all of the time. You have to put the effort in, but you should not have to beg and plead for love in return.

No, love should never hurt. It is normal to miss your significant other when they are away. In fact, you should! But true love will never make you question whether you are good enough for the other person. You should not question your self-worth. You should also never feel like your heart is breaking day after day.

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We all need to remember that a real man will never make his woman feel as though she is nothing. A real man won’t hurt their woman. In fact, they should go out of their way to protect them. If you have to lie to yourself about your relationship with a toxic partner, you are never going to know the meaning of true love.

A real man will never try to hurt his woman deliberately. He will not do anything that would make her feel insecure about herself. She won’t feel threatened by anyone else. There is a long list of the things a real man will do, and abusing a woman is never going to be on that list. A man who hurts a woman is nothing but a coward who hides behind their own manhood. They may think they are a man, but they are just a shell of one. Their souls are dark and bleak.

Tell a small child to draw a man who abuses his woman. What do you think they would draw? They would draw a scary, ugly monster because that is exactly what they really are. A real man will never lie or cheat. He won’t play games or make a woman wait around for him. He won’t want to break her heart. It really is just that simple. A real man will cherish the woman that they love.

Real men also know that a relationship is all about give and take. They know that if they give their love to a woman she will give it back twice as much. She will give you her heart and soul. They will want nothing more than to make their woman as happy as she makes him. That is why a real man treats his woman so well. It is all about giving and receiving. You both win in this kind of relationship.

A real man will protect his woman. But they won’t do it just for show. Even when they are at home and there is no one watching, a real man will do what he can to protect her. This isn’t always about physical strength, either. A man will protect his woman from hurt feelings and poor decisions. He will be there for her no matter what.

A real man will not want to see his woman begging for love. It only makes them upset. Sadists are actually turned on by begging and pleading. A real man will enjoy seeing a confident, happy woman. This is his turn-on. Only a true coward would enjoy abusing a woman and making her doubt her own self-worth.

We sometimes settle when it comes to relationships. We may not go into the relationship with that intention, but we often find ourselves giving our men too many chances. Settling for abuse is never something you should do. No one deserves to be taken advantage of, hurt, and ignored.

You will start to forget just how much you are worth if you let this continue. Please, don’t ever just settle because you are afraid to be alone or are afraid he is right about the mean things he says. Always love yourself enough to know that you should never settle for someone who hurts you. You are better than that.

Self-love is extremely important in this case. You need to be aware of how much you are worth. You deserve a love that doesn’t hurt you. So wherever you are, please know that a real man will protect you, not hurt you. You should never settle for a man who abuses you. They never change.

When you find a man who is worthy of your love, he will do everything that he can to make you happy. He will always be there for you, through thick or thin. He will be a shoulder to cry on when you need it. You will know that he will pick up the phone when you call. You’ll never doubt that he loves you. He will show it in every action and word. So please, we do not want you to ever be with someone who hurts you. That isn’t love and will never be.

Wow, what a powerful piece! Have you been in an abusive relationship before? Tell us about it in the comments and then pass this on to someone who needs to read it!