Quit Looking For Love - It Finds You, Not The Other Way Around

Aug 22, 2018 by apost team

Humans are in control of their own actions;however, people will often be introduced to events that they weren't prepared for. Sometimes it feels like things are going right, then in the blink of an eye everything changes. But humans are resilient. We are able to preserver and continue on with our lives. We never know what is in our future, even when we have dreams, aspirations, and a path to reach our goals. We are able to continue on after a horrifying experience because we don't know what the future holds.

One of the good things that all humans are looking forward to in the future is love. Everyone is looking for love. Some people have already found love, so we all have hope. It is actually quite beautiful how humans are designed to want to find love. We want to be loved, and we want to love someone. However, when we can't find love it can seem terrifying. It makes us cynical and jaded.

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Everyone, at some point in their lives, has wondered why they haven't found love. Some people convince themselves that they are just unlovable. They feel unwanted and lonely. When someone is feeling like this it can be a very horrible experience. Making excuses and trying to rationalize why you are single is common practice when people are feeling this way.

But remember what we said earlier. Things in life come unexpected. Love is no exception. In order to find love, sometimes it is best to stop looking and just let it happen naturally. Most people have found love when they least expect it. It is very likely this is how it will happen to you as well.

It's called serendipity.

It means you have found something positive in the least likely place. Others may refer to this process as fate. No matter what you call it you should know that it has happened to millions of people before you, and it will happen for you too. Love is something that you can't plan for. You can't plan on meeting that special someone, because you don't even know who they are yet. You don't know what they like to do in their free time. You don't know where they work. You have no idea where the future love of your life is right now, so how can you plan on meeting them? You have to just let it happen naturally.

You may not think this advice is that good, but it's possible that you don't need to use it at all. Someone in your life, however, surely can! They would definitely appreciate it if you showed them this article.. so what are you waiting for?