No Woman Deserves To Be In A Relationship With A Man Who Makes Her Feel Lonely

Oct 29, 2018 by apost team

Love is a beautiful thing. Never get it twisted just because of some bad experiences. The truth is that those who are willing to risk getting hurt always find it. However, they must be strong enough to face rejection and to reject bad fits as well.

You should never, for any reason, think that people have the right to judge you unilaterally. Indeed, people are judgmental beings. That is why you should also form high standards for yourself and reject people who try to lower them.

In fact, you should be the person who sets the highest standards for your love life, career and social life. That is why you need to ask yourself; how did you become the desperate one in a romantic relationship?

Love is a powerful social tool that can be used either positively or negatively. When used positively, love can make the world so much better for human happiness than it ever was. Unfortunately, manipulative men understand very well just how powerful love can be.

They can woo you into romantic relationships with them via very smooth and cheesy means. Hate can be sold as love. In fact, most of the times; people buy it on large scales. Unfortunately, you could be one of those people.

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Well, it is really simple actually. Do you cry most of the times when you are alone and smile in the midst of people? Is your pillow your private comforter? Do you rely on it to wipe your unending tears all the time? Well, if that is the case, I can bet that he is the cause of everything.

Even if he is not, why doesn't your man ever console you? Isn't he your friend and companion, or is he just a pillow? You deserve much better. In fact, you do not deserve to be alone and sad. If you were single, would you be crying all the time? You deserve better!

When the relationship with your man started out, I bet you did not do much to keep it going? Things were spontaneous and natural. It must have felt like a fairy tale. Truly manipulative narcissists have a special way of making themselves the center of people's worlds.

That is definitely why it hurts so much to fall out with them. Not only do they know how to make you feel like the worst human being on earth, but they do it especially after making you feel like a prized gem. The contrast is what devastates innocent loving soles when everything goes south.

From a source of love pours bitter spitefulness. From a source of attention pours the cold shoulder and gut-wrenching disregard. From a source of faithfulness and respect pours the worst kind of infidelity, betrayal and disrespect.

That is why you feel so lonely despite the fact that you are in a relationship. Bad relationships just suck the life out of strong women. That is why they should know when to let go and set their souls free. Sadly, they seldom do. Why is that?

Hope is one of the pillars of humanity, and it is what keeps us going when we are at our worst. It is just as powerful as love. Unfortunately, like justice, hope is a double-edged sword that can build or destroy. Narcissists are just geniuses when it comes to the mastery of all the pillars of humanity.

They can spot weaknesses from far and wide. When they do, they use hope to conquer and exploit their victims. I am sorry if you are a victim of love. That is why you need to understand how hope is killing you instead of helping you.

You think that just because things were once great, they can be awesome again. The conniving man made you see just how perfect he can be when things are great, and you hold on to that inaccurate perception of him. He built up a façade of respect, and he, perhaps, insinuates that it can come back if you change some of your flaws.

Just like that, he instilled self-doubt in you, and it managed to kill all of your self-confidence. Now, you feel all alone, worthless and desperate to make him love you again. Unfortunately, you remain hopeful that things will go back to the good old days.

You deserve better sister. Take your misplaced hope from a broken love, and use it to grow yourself as an individual.

It must have hurt you really badly to realize that he is indeed the reason for your misery. He used to be the most common reason for your smiles. He was polite, loving, caring, romantic, dedicated and humorous. How he changed to be a cold-hearted snob still puzzles you.

The truth is that you do not deserve to be miserable because of someone else's actions. If what he does to hurt you seems to make him happy, why do you allow it? You deserve someone who respects and adores you.

You deserve a love that builds you up and one that does not illuminate your flaws. Your boyfriend is not doing you a favor by dating you. People date for personal interests, and he is definitely meeting his interests by treating you the way he does.

Are you meeting your interests by being with him? You certainly are not with all those tears. So, you need to let go and focus on yourself until you are ready to love someone who doesn't make you feel alone in the relationship. Make sure that your friends see this message especially if you know someone who is in a toxic relationship.