Men Dating Older Women and Why They Really LOVE Them

Jun 11, 2018 by apost team

With the attention usually on older men who have a woman on their arm that could be mistaken for their youngest daughter, it is not surprising that older women get ignored in the dating market. But, there are a bevy of gentleman out there who actually flock towards women of a certain age for any number of very enticing and alluring reasons: 

Once women hit a certain age, it isn’t any mor about what a man thinks about how they look and who they are, it’s about how they feel about themselves and what makes them happy. Perfecting every detail of their makeup and dress for a man’s desires isn’t at the top of their agenda anymore, and many younger men find that level of confidence extremely attractive. 
 

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With most older women, it isn’t just about accumulating knowledge, it’s about having the right kind of knowledge to make a man feel good. The worldly ways of an older women usually translate into knowing just what to do in the bedroom to keep a relationship lively and full of discovery! 

By a certain age, older women have achieved mostly all of their major goals in life and start to refocus their efforts on enjoying their life for what it is and not what it should or could be. There are even some goals that older women realistically let go because the time to achieve them has past. That takes a lot of pressure off a man who begins a relationship with an older woman and gives both of them a lot of time to get to know each other. 

Like a classic car, an older woman is really a timeless standard of beauty, poise, grace, and class. They have usually found what works for them in terms of style and beauty. So, they present their best self to the world and most men will see that and find them to be enticing and well put-together. 

The longer you live, you probably have more stories to tell. That means an older woman can probably converse with nearly anyone about more or less anything and hold that person’s full attention. They have also developed an easy-going and authentic style of communication that would make any man feel like they have known each other forever. 

One thing a lot of younger women can bring to a relationship is hyperbolic emotion. This usually is a result of immaturity on their part and not really having enough life experiences that they have worked through and resolved on their own. Not so with most older women who have probably been through most major emotional upheavals that life has to offer and also helped others through a few as well and will react with calm as opposed to chaos. 

A confident and happy older woman remember their time being young with fondness and nostalgia, and that is sexy to a younger man who may be still needs to experience some of those moments too. They can reminisce about their experiences with first dates, their first time making love, their first drink at a bar, and even their first relationship or marriage in a way that another man will find fascinating as well as educational. 

For someone who has been there and done that, it can be very difficult to impress them with anything. Many men love this type of challenge, so they are attracted to older women to experience the full measure of trying to please a woman who has experienced most everything. It also creates a bond between them that says I can still be your first even though you have had so many firsts already! 

You won’t find very many eligible and ready older women who have been depending on a man for their happiness. Most women reach a certain age and find that they are financially independent and able to treat a man to dinner, buy them gifts, and treat them like a “boy toy” instead of the other way around. What man wouldn’t like that?! 

Gone is the mentality that we live in a patriarchal society that says men should be the king of the household and women are subservient to them. In fact, older women have shattered that glass ceiling and taken on a demeanor of authority at work and at home, and many men find this level of power in a woman extremely irresistible. 

Have you ever been with a younger man? Do you agree with all of these points? Let us know and pass this on so that everyone knows how amazing older women are!