It's Not Complicated: If He Is Not Making An Effort To Be With You, Then He Does Not Want You

Dec 07, 2018 by apost team

It is sometimes difficult to tell yourself the truth when you are not in control of your emotions. At these times you pretty much see what you choose to see and hear only what you choose to hear. You might notice signs that a man is really into you even if he truly is not. You might tell yourself he cares for you even if he doesn't show it as much as you would like.

It is possible he does have feelings for you but not the kind you imagine. Perhaps he stops by when it is convenient but is obviously not there to stay. It is not difficult to understand. A man will pursue a woman that he wants.

A man that does not want you will always find excuses not to see you. The tendency to pursue is hard-wired into the DNA of a man. He will chase the one he wants and make the impossible come true to have her by his side. If you do not see this trait in the man you desire, he does not feel about you the way you feel about him.

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It is difficult to come to grips with this fact at times. It is not only the love you feel that causes you to become blind. You will be kept off balance because he wants something but not a committed relationship. He will string you along and knows all the right words to keep you on the hook. He will provide you with just enough to keep you attached but never give you enough to be confident his heart belongs to you.

There are days he will be charming. This charm makes it easier to believe he is totally into you. The situation will then change suddenly and you will not hear from him for days. He will see you when it is convenient for him and sometimes become angered with you without reason.

The constant shift in personality will sometimes cause you to become confused. A number of questions will run through your head and you will seek answers to them all. You will question yourself and begin to think you have done something to cause the lack of attention. You should stop immediately. He is not worth the trouble or the time. It is useless to continue chasing a man with one foot already out the door. A man that is not one hundred percent sure about his feelings for you can never make you happy.

You do not want to be a woman that waits nervously for a man to call or text while he continues to live his life. You do not want a man that steps in and out of your life anytime he pleases. Do not allow a man to treat you like a doormat. You should never settle for less than you deserve.

Do not allow anyone to treat your feelings like they are toys to play with. Do not allow him to mess with your mind or use your body as a disposable good. Do not allow any man to think for a second you can be treated this way. You are a brave woman who knows her worth. You should behave like it at all times. You and you alone are responsible for your life and happiness.

Your time is too valuable to be wasted by any man. It is not your duty to wait for him to change. You do not have to measure your value by the status of your relationship. You should know that being single is an improvement over a bad relationship.

You deserve to be with someone who will love you in an old-fashioned way. There is a man out there who will court you properly. He will not stop until you are his. Do not believe this type of love to be a fairytale or a thing of the past. It is real and it still exists. It is only difficult to see from where you are now.

You should wait for the man who will provide you with the love story you deserve. You should wait for the man that remembers to text you and makes plans ahead of time to be in your company. You should be pursued by a man who intends to show you how important you are. You should wait for the man who respects you and who will be available to you at all times. You should wait for a man that will accept your flaws without using them against you when it benefits him.

Your man should be your greatest supporter. He should be the rock you can lean on whenever you need comfort or inspiration. Do not put up with any more mixed signals from a man. You are a priority and not an option. The man you are meant to be with will pursue you. He will not make your life miserable or cause you to doubt yourself. The love will be natural and will freely be yours.

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