It's Almost 2019 Time To Bid Farewell To These Types Of Relationships
Dec 21, 2018 by apost team
When you spend a lot of energy holding onto a bad relationship, it is going to stop you from living a full and meaningful life.
It’s almost 2019. Isn’t it time you fall in love with someone important? That person is you! You should also start cutting out the people who do nothing to make you happy.
There really is so much love and happiness out there just waiting to be discovered. However, you have to break it off with your significant other if you want to experience the magic that the new year is bound to have in store for you.
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Those magical new experiences start with you! It is time that you do what is best for you no matter what anyone else thinks. When you make yourself a priority, you will find the person who you deserve.
Get ready to say goodbye to these four types of relationships in 2019.
1. The “Excuses” Relationship
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He is scared of relationships. He has had a rough childhood. He is broken up over his last relationship. He just doesn’t want to commit to anyone right now. Sure, we get it- but we are sick of it!
Everyone has been through rough patches here and then. We have all had our share of crappy relationships. However, the difference between you both is the fact that you won’t treat someone like crap because of it. You have risen above it and put it behind you. Him, not so much!
We all have to deal with our past in a way that helps us heal. But a bad past or a hurtful breakup is never a good reason to act like a jerk. Do not allow a man like this to keep you hanging on. A real man will not be afraid to make things work with you. A man who is worth being with will go out of the way to make things perfect in the relationship. You will be his queen, and he won’t be scared to show it.
2.The “Selfish” Relationship
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Many women tend to fall for the bad boy. We like mysterious behavior and a deep, brooding personality. We think we can fix a man and make him who we want them to be. But the truth is, a guy like this is simply a manipulative narcissist. They are okay with making you feel bad about what you want because they think their needs are much more important.
Don’t allow anyone to treat you like you are worthless. Make sure you know how to recognize this type of behavior before you get in too deep. He is happy letting you fuel his ego as he sucks the energy right out of you.
You deserve so much more in 2019, so allow yourself the chance to find the right guy. When you do, he will make the rest of them look like little boys.
3.The “Almost” Relationship
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You are much too important for someone to only give you a small part of his life and love. Someone who isn’t willing to give you his everything is not the person you should want in your life this new year.
Anyone who is too scared to commit after you have been together for a long time isn’t worth wasting any more time on. You should be with someone who will want to shout to everyone the way he feels about you!
Settling for a person who always seems to be on the verge of committing is only setting yourself up for failure. You don’t need an immature boy who cannot commit. Cut him loose and then keep your eyes open for your equal.
4.The “Almost Out the Door” Relationship
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Too many people do not appreciate a good relationship. That is why there are many men who are always one step out of the relationship. They can’t commit because they are always expecting someone better to come along. They don’t care that they are essentially wasting your time by doing so.
If you are feeling as though you always come in second best with him, it is time to let that man go. He should always be 100% committed to you and your relationship. If he is always looking for something better, why should you wait around for him? Besides, he may just be looking for an excuse to cheat on you.
This type of guy will always be looking for greener pastures. You don’t deserve someone like that. Get rid of him and spend 2019 ready to accept a man who will make you a priority every step of the way.
Do you relate to this article? Have you ever been in any of these relationships? Drop us a comment below and pass this onto others. It will guide everyone to start their new year right!