It Doesn't Matter Who You Were With Before - But When You're With Me, Make Me Your One And Only

Nov 21, 2018 by apost team

It's sometimes hard to trust other people, especially if you've been hurt in the past. It's easy to assume that the people you meet are simply out to hurt you like everyone else. When you allow people into your life, you might feel like you're just setting yourself up to be treated unfairly or to be disappointed. When you make the decision to trust someone, it seems like you're only going to be treated as usual and in a way that is hurtful.

People are often out to betray you, or that's the way that you feel. When someone talks to you and sees you for your true inner person, then they will get bored and stop talking to you like everyone else. If you choose to trust someone and let that person know that you trust them, then make sure that the person doesn't have someone else on the side.

When you get into a relationship, you might feel that you're going to be cheated on and that it's something to be expected from each person you're with. However, you don't want to be a girlfriend who is crazy and who overthinks every situation because that's not healthy for either you or the other person. You don't want to keep checking his phone messages or keep calling him to find out what he's doing. You don't want to be the girl who questions each time he chooses to do something without you. When you're with someone, you shouldn't be the girl who loses herself and who doesn't have the self-confidence that you know you have. There is no reason to live a life in fear of someone cheating on your or hurting you.

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These reasons are only a few as to why you keep your distance from people and why you question relationships. You likely want to know why someone would want to date you or if that person is just playing around and really has someone else on the side. You want to know if that person is going to cheat on you in the future or if that person is serious about being in a relationship at all.

There's no reason to sound like a pessimist. However, that's what you usually sound like when you do talk to other people because you have a fear of someone hurting you. You think that everyone is selfish and only wants to cause you harm instead of liking you for the person you are on the inside. Some people might act in a reckless manner when they talk to other people, but not everyone is the same. Not everyone is out to cheat.

You know that people have made mistakes in the past. You're not the only woman who has been in his life. However, if you're with that person, then you should be the only one that he talks to instead of him talking to others on the side.

Have you ever felt like that? Scared that your partner might not be as loyal as he seems? Let us know about your experiences and be sure to pass this article on because there are many women out there who feel the same!