It Doesn't Matter How Busy Someone Is - It Matters What Place You Are On Their Priority List

Nov 20, 2018 by apost team

If you're important to someone, then that person will take the time to talk to you. No one is always too busy to at least spend a few minutes talking to you to make sure you're alright.

People have time to spend with you as long as they make time. The truth is that they just don't want to spend their time on you as a person. This is a hard truth to face, but it's better to find out early on instead of putting months or years into a relationship only to get hurt more in the future.

If you're important to someone, then that person will find the time for you instead of always giving you excuses. That person will also make it a point to sacrifice time spent with those who aren't as important in order to make time for you and to do the things that make you happy.

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When someone gives you the excuse of being too busy, then know that it's likely because that person just doesn't want to be bothered by you. You're just not a priority for that person like they are to you.

Time is the most important thing that you can give to others and that someone else can give to you. It's the only thing that you can't buy. You can't extend it, and you can't use it to bargain with someone. You have to make the most of the time that you're given, so when someone tells you that there is just no time for you, then know that you're not important to that person. It's at that point that you need to realize that it's time to move on and find people who do cherish you and who are willing to put your first.

When you fall in love with someone, you know that there will be things that you're going to have to compromise about so that each of you can be happy. The time that you have during the day isn't just yours any longer. It belongs to the other person as well.

You don't have to spend every waking minute with the other person, but you should want to spend time during the week with each other. If the other person doesn't seem to want to spend time with you and always wants to do other things, then that person isn't worth your time.

When the person you love needs help or when you need help, there should be no question as to when you're going to be with that person. If you're being told that there are other things to do all the time, then you're just not making the cut in that person's life. Although the other person is important to you, it's likely that you're not as important. There are times when you need your own space, so keep that in mind. However, don't fall for the excuses. No one is ever too busy to spend time with the person they love.

Have you ever had to move on from a relationship like this? Let us know in the comments and show this article to your friends and family to let them know that you'll always have time for them!