If You're The Girl Who Always Helps Everyone Else, Sometimes You Need Someone There For You, Too

Oct 30, 2018 by apost team

The girl who always devotes her time to helping other people and offering an ear for those who are around her is often the one who needs someone there for her.

There's usually a variety of feelings that are bottled inside a girl who is always there for other people. Her heart often spans the depths of the ocean so that she can show other people that she cares. Sometimes, the girl who is there for other people falls in love with those who are never there for her.

She also trusts people who are only there for her for a short time instead of providing the emotional support that she needs. While small pieces of her soul and heart are being torn into pieces, she continues to give these precious parts away.

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This girl hurts. Her heart and body begin to ache. She begins to wonder if there is someone out there who will love her in the way that she deserves to be loved. She will begin to wonder if someone will finally ask how she's feeling and if she needs anything instead of always giving her heart and soul to others.

When there's no one there, she begins the process of healing herself instead. There is strength found in daily activities and inanimate objects. She begins to avoid people while she's healing. Sometimes, she will begin to daydream and build herself to a point where she's able to survive on her own instead of relying on the gifts that other people offer.

She tries to tell herself that there's no need to allow other people inside her world, but this is far from the truth. She does need someone to be there and to catch her when she falls.

The girl who has the biggest smile on her face and who always wants to know how other people are doing is the girl who needs someone to smile at her. She is a girl who cries at night after she wipes away the tears of other people. She offers encouragement, but she needs to be encouraged to go on by someone else.

To the person who gives her all, know that you're a rare soul. You can calm storms that other people create. There is a purpose for your life that needs to be discovered.

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