If You Love Her, Don't Break Her Down
Nov 16, 2018 by apost team
You'll often find that there's a thin line that comes between love and other emotions. Unfortunately, pain and hate are two of those emotions. If you love a woman, then don't destroy her while loving her.
When you love a woman, then you need to make her aware of those feelings. If she knows that you love her and you have a strong relationship, then you'll succeed better as a couple than if you were to try to deal with issues on your own.
Keep the image of her when you first met in your mind at all times, especially when it seems like things are getting rough. Keep in mind her habits and the way she acted. Don't try to change her. Love her for her faults as well as the good things that she has to offer.
You decided to choose this woman to love when she was being herself, so don't try to change her in the future.
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She relies on how you feel about her and how you think about her. She needs to know that you love her as a person without destroying her personality and her character. She can take care of herself without you in the picture. However, she doesn't want to be alone.
Don't destroy the woman who loves you. She has likely been destroyed in her past and is giving you a chance to make things right and to show her that she can be loved again. Don't repeat the actions of another man.
You might think that you've read the book of her life, but you really haven't. There are numerous details of her life that you'll be privileged to find out about if you don't destroy her. You could spend years with her and still discover things that she's kept inside.
Avoid being absent from her life. She needs you to be there not only physically but mentally and emotionally as well. When you're there but not there in mind and soul, then she'll notice that key point.
Don't show her that you need her. Show her that you want her. She will begin to feel destroyed if she feels like she's not important or if she feels like you don't love her as you say.
She's not a woman who needs to be saved, but she needs your patience. If she's been broken before, be ready to catch the pieces and put them back together. The person she sees is the person she wants you to love instead of trying to turn her into something that she might not even like herself.
The effort that you show to her will be reciprocated twice as much, giving you a woman who loves with all her heart.
Take away from this the point that you might be the person who shows her that love is real.
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