I Didn't Want To Leave You, But You Never Gave Me A Reason To Stay

Oct 11, 2018 by apost team

Sometimes, you have to make the decision to leave someone else. It's often not the easiest decision to make, but if the other party offers nothing that is beneficial to you any longer, then leaving is sometimes the best thing that you can do for your life.

You never really know when there is a right or a wrong time to move on with your life if you're in a relationship that isn't what you want. Sometimes, you end a relationship and aren't sure how much time should pass before you move on to another relationship or other events in your life. Some of the factors that you might want to consider are how long you were with the other person or how much you cared about that person.

If the relationship truly wasn't what you wanted and the person didn't give you any reason to stay, then there usually isn't a set amount of time for moving on to another relationship or moving on with the other events in your life.

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There really isn't a designated time to wait to move on from a relationship that has failed. You should take as much time as you need in order to live a healthy life physically, mentally, and emotionally. You might never get over the person you were with, and that's alright. Even after months or years of being apart, the pain could still be as real as it was the day that the relationship ended.

There are days when you don't want to let the other person go, but you need to keep in mind that there will be a time when you need to say goodbye and try to move on with your life so that you can have healthy relationships in the future. It's important to make an effort. If you bottle up all of the emotions of the failed relationship and put all of your feelings into loving someone who doesn't love you back, then it can be a hindrance and can begin impacting your mind and body.

Tell yourself that you're not important to the other person and that neither of you are necessary for the function of each other. When you are able to accept the reality that the other person didn't give you a reason to stay in the relationship, then it will be easier to move on from it and to develop relationships that are healthy and that you deserve.

The other person might have wanted you around for comfort when no one else was around and didn't really have an emotional connection with you. The other person likely needed you there just to have someone to talk to or to provide support. When someone else entered the picture, then you were tossed on a back burner and left alone. These are the things that you need to remember after a failed relationship so that you can move on instead of being sad.

These are the steps to keep in mind so that you have some kind of closure in the relationship.

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