How To Love A Woman Who Has Suffered A Lot

Sep 13, 2018 by apost team

The woman who has seen the darkest allies, and has felt the strongest storms is not easy to love. She has been to hell and back. Don't even try if you think you are weak for you will have to be a lot more patient, resilient and empathetic to win her heart. Most will fail, but only the strongest one will prevail.

She won't be easy, but she will be worth it. She is a force of nature so she will test you to see if you can weather her storm. To love her won't be less than an adventure. And the moment you think you know her, she will surprise you for she is unpredictable. She will feel like an enchanted dream as well as the thought of her won't let you sleep. Some days she will be calm and gentle, crying relentlessly and expecting you to hold her. The other days she will be a hurricane, hoping you to love her harder.

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She is a paradox. She is mysterious for she will smile at you in the storm and walks anxiously in the quiet. A contradiction that will leave you perplexed, confused but also curious and you will long to know her more. She doesn't want you to be perfect, but if you love her right, she will make it perfect for both of you. She will like it when you go out of the way for her, but she also loves her independence and freedom equally. She will not dependent on you; she will be your equal. You will either be in this together or nothing at all.

She will be fragile; not like a flower but like a time bomb. She will redefine the word awesome for you. She is broken, but broken people know how to survive. She will be wild and free and not someone to be tamed. You will either have to run with her or be left behind. She will motivate you to do your best, push your limits, and be yourself. She will not try to change you at all, but you will become a better version of yourself by just being with her.

Sometimes she might not know what she needs, and you will need to read her mind like you read your favorite book, page by page, word by word. All you will have is her silence. When she tries to come out of her comfort zone, be there for her and when she makes mistakes and refuses to admit, love her even harder. Many men would have told her that she is beautiful, but she will only believe you because she loves you. So tell her often that you love her, for she needs to hear that.

Whether she feels too much or not enough, love her irrespectively. She will not tell you that you mean the world to her; she will show you. Be ready to show her back, for she is willing to give her all if you are the one. If you hurt her, you will feel the pain too because you won't be able to forgive yourself for the pain that you will see in her eyes. Whether she is the light or the darkness, love her for both, for there is no light without the darkness.

Her love will not be unconditional, but your happiness will be her happiness. You will need to be the man she is proud to be with, not just happy or content. Her heart will be like a secret garden. She will never lie to you but to know her hidden truths, you will have to climb the wall of that garden. It's not easy to get in, but it's possible.

She knows heartbreak better than anyone else. If you will try to pull off mind games with her, be ready to lose. She will leave you before you even have the thought of quitting on her. And when she leaves you, it will be hard to move on. The hurt you will endure will be far more painful than the one she will go through. It is the price you will have to pay to experience what it is like to love her.

Being powerless or trapped will never work for her. Not being able to control things, terrifies her. She is a gypsy soul and is limitless. She will run, dance, fall, walk, crawl but never give up. She is at her best when she is free. And if she is free, she will always come back to you.

Love her when she least expects it, love her harder when she is unlovable. Love her with all your heart, mind, body and soul, for it will be a life-changing experience. Love her because you know there is no lie in what she does or feels. Love her because you understand that she has defied all the negative thoughts, all the odds to give her heart to you because she wants to trust you.

As a man have you ever loved a woman like this or as a woman have you ever felt like this? Write your experiences and thoughts in the comment section for everyone to learn from them. Let your loved ones know about this article!