Here Is Why Missing Him Is Natural But Going Back To Him Will Be A Natural Disaster

Dec 19, 2018 by apost team

Another day has come and gone, yet you still miss him. You feel guilty, but it's not your fault. You should never feel ashamed for loving someone, no matter how bad they turned out in the end. I'm here to tell you that it's okay to miss him. But whatever you do, don't go back. He's out of your life for a reason. Right now, you might only remember the good times. Your heart physically aches every time you remember something he once said or read through your old conversations.

You may argue that you do remember the bad and love him anyway. That has to mean your love is extraordinary, right? Ask yourself: Would he ever say the same about you?

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You can't help the fact that you still cry when you hear the song you made love to or that certain scents send your mind months into the past. You can't control the fact that your body longs to be cradled in his arms when you lie in bed at night.

You may miss all these things, but you can have them with someone else — someone who will treat you right. Someone you won't have to forget pain to be with.

The one who hurt you is not going to change. Even if he says things will be different this time around, they won't. You may start off strong and feel like you two have conquered the world, but you've really just set yourselves up for more hurt.

Two hearts that weren't meant to love each other are like poison, and the greatest side-effect is delusions. He hurt you once, and he will do it again, even though he promises he won't.

He's not a perfect person, you know that better than anyone. Maybe he meant it when he said he never wanted to hurt you. But he did it more than once, didn't he? Many times. He is the one who only cares about their mistakes when they're inconvenient for him.

You deserve better than that. You deserve a love that feels like home and never makes you cry. This longing is all a part of the healing process. Your heart and brain will say you need him, but as time goes on, they'll realize they only need one person to live this life well: you.

Hang in there. The future is bright, and love is waiting for you just up ahead. Don't miss it because you're too busy looking into the past. Tell us what you feel in the comments below and pass this article to anyone you know needs a little upliftment!