Here Are The Top 8 Things People Judge About You

Jul 31, 2018 by apost team

It's not a good feeling to be judged by others, but it's one of those things that people do. The truth is, we all do it. Here are the top 8 things people will use to judge you on a daily basis.

Unfortunately, this may be the first thing people notice about you, and they may also use it to make a snap judgment. Your face, your features and even your skin tone may all be judged, but keep in mind that when someone dislikes you for your appearance, it says a lot more about them than it does about you.

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The words you use and the pitch and tone of your voice might fall under scrutiny, too. If you are soft-spoken, people may judge you as shy and insecure, while if you speak loudly, they may see you as confident and sure of yourself. But be careful, because there's a fine line between confident and arrogant.

People will also judge you on the clothes that you wear. If you wear what makes you feel comfortable and happy, others will probably see you the way you want to be seen.

People may make snap judgments about you that are off the mark based on just a few comments. On the other hand, it is also possible to make some decent assessments about a person's political leanings, education and more based on the things they say.

This might be a fairly reliable way of judging people. You can tell a lot about someone based on whether they seem helpful and kind or rude and argumentative. People may not want to be around you if you often display the latter two qualities.

The movies you watch, the music you listen to, the books you read and even the food you eat can be very telling, so it's not surprising that people often judge you based on these things.

What someone thinks of you should not be based on the kind of career you have, but people do it all the time. The truth is, you can tell a lot about someone from their career. Think about what you would think of someone who was a firefighter or a police officer, and what you would think of someone who was a businessman. Your ideas of these careers are probably very different!

People will judge you on whether or not you are on time or consistently late for things. If you are regularly tardy, they may consider you unreliable. If you show on time, people will think of you as someone who makes a commitment and sticks to it.

Judging people may not be the kindest thing, but it is something we are all guilty of. What's the top thing you judge others on? Comment and let us know! Show this to your friends and family to see if they agree.