Give Me Everything, Or Give Me Nothing

Dec 19, 2018 by apost team

To my next partner, 

Before we begin our new relationship, I need you to know that I want you to give me everything, or give me nothing. Don’t bother starting a relationship with me if you aren’t going to provide me with your full potential. Do not promise me an everlasting love if you are going to waste my time.

Do not make false promises about being there for me through everything if you aren’t going to fulfill them. I absolutely need someone who talks the talk, but more importantly, walks the walk. Do what you say and say wha you mean. Do not tell me you love me if you truly don’t mean it.

I’ve been through too much to go through it all again. I know what it means to be in a relationship with someone who does not treat me right. I’m used to dating mediocre partners that have used and abused me. I know exactly what it feels like to be so in love with someone that it caused me pain.

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Because of my past, I’m asking you to treat me right. No human deserves to feel disrespected or walked on in their relationship. If we’re not going to have a magical love, I don’t want it. You can take me or leave me, but don’t treat me poorly. Give me everything, or give me nothing at all.

Because I’ve been through so many obstacles, I’m finally aware of what I want and deserve. I want a love that feels so deeply amazing that everyone will be jealous of our relationship. I want a partner that feels like home to me. I want someone to be so crazy about me that they show no limits. I want all of you or none of you.

I know that I can be a bit messy at times, and if you feel like I’m too much to handle, you should leave as soon as possible. I want my flaws to be accepted and understood by my partner. I just want someone who will be genuine with me. If you are kind to me, I will be kind to you. If you become toxic or manipulative, I will see right through your actions and leave immediately.

I’ve been too understanding for too long with people that didn’t deserve it. But now, I’ve had enough. I do not want to repeat my past trauma and I no longer want to be broken-hearted. When I’m in a relationship, I want to be happy together. Love doesn’t have to be traumatic or painful unless we make it that way. All we have to do is fight for each other every single day.

This time, I want something that feels different than the rest. Something that will make me proud to call my own and something that is worth fighting for. I don’t want pain, trauma, deception, lies or mistakes. I want something that comes out of a fairytale. I want the type of love that can withstand the test of time.

I know that every relationship has struggles and problems, but I want to overcome them together and emerge stronger than ever. If you believe in me as much as I believe in you, there’s nothing that we cannot accomplish. If you accept me as I am, I will accept you. Flaws and all, we can make this work.

Love is not some impossible game. If you decide to join me on this journey, I will stand by your side forever. But I want it all, or I simply want nothing at all. Give me your everything, or give me nothing. We're either all in with each other or we're out. I do not have time for half-hearted relationships and people that do not fulfill all of my needs and wants. Life is short, and I deserve more than that.

Don’t fall in love with me unless you want this to last. Because I want everything with you, or I want nothing at all with you.

Are you seeing someone new? Or are you still not sure about the one you are currently dating? In any case, you should ask your potential partner to give this article a read! Feel free to add your thoughts and opinions in the comments below and pass it on to others!