Even If She Loves You A Lot, You Will Lose Her And Here's Why

Dec 17, 2018 by apost team

Your dream girl is out there--and you know it. You know, deep down, that she already loves you with her whole heart. What you may not realize is that just because she's your dream girl, she won't ALWAYS be there for you. 

The moment you find your dream girl, understand that she may love you back, but only for a time. The minute you begin to mistreat her, she'll realize that it's time to move on.  You'll lose your dream girl when she realizes that she deserves better. Regardless of what you did in the past to win her over, your actions now won't cut it. 

Now, she goes to bed alone, without the "good night" messages you used to send. She doesn't wake up to your "good morning" texts anymore either. She's already stopped waiting for your surprise phone calls that you used to make because you wanted to ask her about her day.

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She doesn't expect anything from you anymore--since she has no reason to expect anything, what's there for her to look forward to? Now, she doesn't feel like she's one of your priorities. It's clear to her that she's no longer the important woman in your life. You take her for granted and she's starting to realize it. Even if she hasn't made an issue of it yet, that doesn't mean she won't.​​​​​​​

She's not going to sit around forever, waiting for you to treat her better. The truth is that if you don't change your ways, she's going to leave.  Why should she stay? Since you treat her as if you couldn't care less if she stayed or left, she might as well take the hint and go.

The catch is that as soon as she's gone from your life, you'll realize how special she was. It is at that moment that you'll understand how badly your treated her. If you want to do something to keep her from leaving, you need to analyze your behavior now. Do you spend your free time thinking about her? Do you ever call her just to say hello?

Do you make any effort to get in touch when you know she's waiting to hear from you? Are you treating her the way you want to be treated? Your answer to these questions should show you where you went wrong in your relationship. If you've answered "no" to most of these questions, it's easy to understand how she might feel.

Any woman that knows her worth will eventually realize that you aren't giving her what she deserves. At the very least, she deserves to have more of your attention, affection, and energy. She should always feel like a priority, not a last minute thought. Whether you call her once every few weeks or you never reach out at all, both actions say the same thing: you don't care enough about her.

When was the last time she heard that she was beautiful? Do you ever compliment her anymore? Does she still feel like the special woman that you once fell for? Or is she just like any other woman to you? Do you still show her that you care about how she feels? Think about today. Did you reach out to her? Did you ask how her day was? If she was feeling bad, would you even know? When was the last time you hugged her or kissed her to let her know everything will be okay?

Though these actions seem quite simple, they speak volumes. Once you stop showing her you care, she will do the same to you. Maybe then you'll understand how much it hurts to be treated like an afterthought. It is already clear to everyone, but you-you don't care about her. Someday soon, she's going to accept this and leave you.

In relationships like these, the woman may seem perfectly fine with the way her partner treats her, but if he ever dug a little deeper, he would see the truth: She's lonely, she's hurting, and she is dying for you to connect with her. Why should she put up with that? She needs a better partner in her life, you should understand that when she decides to walk away from you.

You don't show her she belongs in the relationship with you and it's killing her that you won't do anything to change the current situation. Once she leaves you, she's gone. She's not coming back and that's on you. Yes, there was a time that you did care for her. You got her to fall for you and that was enough at the time. But that was in the past. The way you are treating her now has destroyed all of that.​​​​​​​

She may have had hope that you would change your ways, but that hope will start to wear thin if it hasn't already. She can't hold out hope forever, and she shouldn't be expected to. She may love you, but that love won't be enough to get her to stay in a relationship that's so broken. This heartbreaking truth is important for partners in any relationship to recognize.

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