Even If She Falls In Love With You, She’ll Be Just Fine On Her Own
Mar 04, 2019 by apost team
You didn't choose an ordinary woman, you chose the superhero of women. All the women in your past are nothing compared to her.
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You will soon see just how different this woman is, as she is one of a kind. This woman comes with a caring heart of gold. Not only does she know how to love, but she will make your life better. You will wake up renewed in the spirit of her. She will inspire you to be a better version of yourself. You will enjoy her pushes forward and anticipate her gentle nudges.
If you are committed, then so is she, but know that she will not lower her standards. There are strong deal breakers involved and you best be up to the task.
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This superhero of a woman is also a beast. But she still has a fragile heart which she shields with her fierceness. This woman does not take anyone's bullshit. If you do her wrong, then watch out! If you stand in her way, she won't hesitate to leave you behind.
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Being independent, she knows what she wants and how she wants it. There is no time for settling for less than a man who is just as though as she is.
This type of woman does not need you. She chooses you because she wants to. She is already a superhero, so she understands her strengths of being able to make it on her own. Dependency is not a part of her vocabulary.
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If you mistreat her, show a lack of love, or do not show her respect she will walk away from you. If you leave her, she will still be fine. Go! She will not look you up nor stalk you as you are not worth it. No need to make you jealous as that is a use of worthless energy. You can only be seen in her rearview mirrors and a thing of the past. She is moving forward without you.
But that doesn't mean that her love for you wasn't real. She did love you with all of her heart and very deeply, it's just that your time is up due to your behavior. This woman will be ok and get back up on her feet no matter how hard she may fall for you.
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All of this happened for a reason. You were not ready. The cause was bigger than you. There is no room for tears because it is a part of the process of shedding dead leaves. Like a flower, she will bloom. You were a lesson learned.
Tomorrow this superhero will go on with her life. She will be attractive to others who buzz around her. No tears will be shed because of you. You lost the best thing in your life.
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She will step forward in happiness. She will smile even if you are not around. Happiness is a journey and she will continue to enjoy the ride - with or without your love.
She sits with happiness and pours it in her morning coffee. Happiness perches near her window when she awakes. Happiness gushes on to the sidewalk when she walks. Her happiness has nothing to do with you. Your departure time appeared, but happiness is dedicated to her.
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Your love for her is irrelevant. This complete person was whole before you and will continue to be whole after you have left.
Your presence was not her validation. She knows her worth and the last time she checked you were not a deposit in the account of her life. Others' opinions of her did not add to pennies in her book.
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Losing you only gives this woman a reason to grow stronger. She will remain the same strong and self-sufficient woman she always has been.
Breaking her heart is not the same as breaking her. That's impossible! You can hurt her but the very essence of her personality will come through unscathed. Her world won't shatter. She will be ok on her own.
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Have you ever been hurt so badly you thought you would never be okay again but eventually realized that you are so much stronger than you thought? Let us know your experience with heartbreak and be sure to pass this article along to others who might need some encouragement.