Enough Is Enough - Once She's Over It, She's Never Going To Change Her Mind

Jul 06, 2018 by apost team

All couples argue and fight; it’s just a natural part of being in a relationship. Sometimes there are signs that tell you a relationship can be saved. At the same time, there are also signs that tell you a relationship is beyond saving. When she exhibits these four signs, you can be sure that it is time to call it quits. There is no saving this relationship; she isn’t going to change her mind.

She’s not looking back at you because she’s already looking forward to the next big thing in her life. She’s got plans as big as the sky, and those plans just don’t include you anymore. She’s made up her mind about what her future is going to look like; she’s got ideas about the next relationship she wants to be in.

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Detaching from a relationship is very difficult, especially if you have been together for a long time. Passion comes in lots of forms, which means that cooling off can also come in many guises. Maybe she’s not as interested in hearing your stories as she used to be; maybe she’s not returning your calls as quickly. Once she’s gone through the effort of pulling away, she’s not going to attach herself to you again.

Do you remember when she wanted to help you improve yourself? When did she stop wanting to do that? That was a sign that she was starting to give up on the relationship. Early on in the relationship, she saw all the potential you had and wanted to help you maximize it. She wanted to help you overcome your failures and shortcomings. Once she’s given up on wanting to help you, she’s over you.

Back when your relationship was hot, she always made time for you. Obligations like work, family, school, and friends were also important but they never took priority over you. Now that she’s ready to give up on the relationship, all these other things are now more important. The things that she neglected in order to spend time with you are now very important to her; she’s focusing her attention on lots of other things and there’s not much time left for you.

Deciding to end a relationship isn’t easy, and it can be a heartbreaking choice to make. However, when your partner is showing these four signs in particular, she’s definitely ready to move on. It’s time to call it quits and find another person to be with. Not every relationship is destined to last forever; maybe this one was just a temporary fling.

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