Don't Fall In Love Because You Are Single, But Because You Found Someone Who Is Willing To Put Efforts Into Loving You

Jan 02, 2019 by apost team

While there’s often a stigma attached to be single, as if you’re a car missing a tire or some novelty that must only look good on a shelf, there’s actually a bright and shining silver lining to remaining single. You’re refusing to settle. You’ll be free to meet that right someone willing to check all your boxes, not just a few of them.

Remain single until someone comes along willing to put forth the effort and work it takes to have a healthy and thriving committed relationship. That right someone will be mature, anything but lazy, and eager to to take on all the responsibilities that come alongside loving someone.

Remain single until someone knows how to treat you well without needing to be patted on the back or rewarded for it. That right person will treat you with respect and dignity because they understand it’s what you deserve, not what’s superficially expected of them. The smile on your face will be all the reward they need.

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Remain single until someone comes along that values open, honest, and sincere communication. They’ll listen when you speak. They’ll value what you say. They’ll willingly tell you about themselves, not have to be pried open for information. The moment you walk into a room, all electronics, bystanders, and distractions will be set aside because you will always be the focal point of their attentions.

Remain single until someone treats you as an equal in the bedroom. Your needs will be attended. You won’t give without receiving in equal measure, and you won’t be left craving an intimacy level the other person is unwilling or incapable of offering.

Remain single until someone treats you as an equal on all fronts. The right someone won’t sit back and let you do for them in a one-sided relationship. They give as much as they take. They’ll recognize your worth and take every opportunity to assure you of it.

Remain single until someone always makes you feel included in every facet of their life. Whether it’s with coworkers, friends, or family, you’ll never feel excluded by not being invited. You’ll be welcome on all fronts of their life, and they’ll be proud to have you by their side.

Remain single until someone values your time. They’ll put forth effort into dates and special occasions. They won’t leave you hanging high and dry when something better comes along. The right someone will show up when it’s both convenient and inconvenient. The right someone will pay attention to the things you like and plan accordingly, not just leave you to suffer through their own tastes and pleasures.

Remain single until someone can love you on the hard days as adamantly as the easy days. You’ll know that they care, value you, and appreciate you every single day because they’ll never be willing to take you for granted or sacrifice your happiness in any way.

Remain single until someone gets the little things are often the biggest measures. They’ll think of you first and last. They’ll text you just to let you know you’re on their mind. Their kitchen will be stocked with your favorites. They’ll put thought, not just money, into gifts. They’ll pick movies and restaurants with your likes and dislikes in mind.

Remain single until someone puts thoughtfulness into their daily actions. They’ll call if they’re running late and you’re a worrier. They’ll encourage your friendships because they know you need caring people in your life. They’ll think to do the cooking, dishes, laundry, or driving when they know you’ve had a rough day. They’ll compliment your exterior as much as your interior attributes.

Remain single until someone checks all your boxes, not just a few. That right someone won’t feel like settling; they’ll make you feel like you’ve hit the relationship jackpot. Someone will come along who puts effort into catching, wooing, and retaining you for the long haul. Remain single so you’ll be ready for them.

Are you single and waiting for that someone? Perhaps, you’re in a relationship to nowhere and need to get single? You might even know someone down over being single who desperately needs to read this message? In any case, leave us your comments, thoughts, and shoutouts in the comment section.