Dear Men, When She Starts To See Her Worth You’re Screwed

Mar 05, 2019 by apost team

I am writing this letter to a very specific individual.

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This is for the man who doesn't call her for several days. You are the one who knows how to get her to keep coming back even though she isn't getting anything out of it. You are the one she will always take back just when she thought that she was ready to move on with her life.

You put on a sweet smile and whisper promises in her ear because you know that that is what she can't resist, so she will forget about how strong she is and open her arms wide for you again.

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Every day of the week, she cries herself to sleep, and you are the reason why. You treat her like she's your pet and tell her that you are too good for her. You love it when she believes you and feels lower than she did the day before.

She is having a hard time with this, but she can't let you go. Because of you, she is weak, and she doesn't have anything left to give at this point.

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But just you wait...

The time is coming. The day is going to come when she looks you in the eye and bursts out laughing! She isn't going to understand how she could have allowed herself to be your slave and that you expected her to just be fine with it!

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When that day comes, she isn't going to care. It will be very clear what kind of man you are, and she will promise herself to never be with someone like you again.

You will still text her at all hours of the night, but she isn't going to respond. You aren't going to be able to stand it when she isn't catering to your feelings and what you want from her.

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This will be the time when you ask her to go on a real date, but she is going to decline. That's when you will realize the truth.

You had the chance to be with a wonderful lady, but your desire to be a macho man caused you to take advantage of a beautiful girl. This girl was ready to give you everything, but you didn't notice it until today. It's too late now, but you still wish that you could apologize for the rotten way that you treated her.

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The next person to change is going to be you, and it will be because of her. Because of her, you are going to know what you did wrong. You are going to know what you did to turn her world upside down. You will remember each time that you accepted her kindness without offering anything in return. You will remember how you loved to see her cry when she realized that you made a fool of her again.

On that day, you will see how wrong your behavior has been, and you are going to know that your old way of doing things will not be tolerated any longer.

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You are going to be a new man. As a matter of fact, you will be the man that she needed you to be.

She is going to move on with her life, and you will witness it one day when you see her with her new man. You will notice that there is a glow on her face that lights up the entire world, and you will know that it is because she is truly happy. You are going to hate the fact that you are not the man with her. You'll hate that instead of bringing that radiant smile to her face, you were the one who brought her to tears.

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You don't have any beautiful memories. You can only imagine what might have been. The new man in her life is going to be the one to be with her in the middle of the night when she needs him because he loves her. He will hold her and dry her tears when she is upset, but he will never be the reason that she is in that state.

That day, you will see what is so different about him. You will see that he never needed to treat her like garbage to know that she is special to him, and on that day, she will be the winner.

Have you ever been with a guy who treated you badly until you realized you deserve so much better? Let us know about your experience and be sure to let others know about this post to open some people's eyes!