Be With Someone Who Doesn't Stop Pursuing You
Nov 19, 2018 by apost team
The pursuit of a romantic interest is a complicated art form. Like many other art forms, it is vastly underrated and often overlooked. Humans like routine and they like what’s comfortable. Once we’ve been with someone for an extended period of time, every aspect of the relationship becomes habitual.
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As a culture, we don’t discuss the importance of being pursued with enough frequency. Everyone has different needs and preferences, but every last one of us deserves to be pursued.
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You should date someone who sets up date nights for you. Date someone who puts extra time and effort into planning these date nights, making them something special that they know you’ll enjoy together.
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Be with someone who is positive they want you in their life. They should want you there no matter what they’re dealing with personally.
Be with someone who doesn’t end the chase when they’ve finally gotten you. Be with someone who does their best for you, then tries to do better; someone who tries to one up themselves. Date someone who takes notice of what you say and not only remembers, but brings them up again at just the right moment.
Be with someone who understands the value of solitude, the importance of making their partner a priority, and is able to balance the two.
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Be with someone who brags about you and who isn’t afraid to show that they love you. Their family should know all about you. Their friends should hear your praises, both in private conversation and in front of you and others.
Be with someone who takes the time to learn how you want to be loved, and then loves you that way. They should continue to love you and strive to find new ways to show you their love.
Date a person who recognizes that they are fortunate to have you in their life and understands the vital role you play in it.
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Date someone who is genuinely interested in discovering who you are as a human being and is fascinated by who they find you to be.
No matter what type of person you usually go for, know that you deserve a person who pursues you. You deserve a love that is deep, abiding, and obvious to the world. You deserve someone who makes you feel like you are the world. You deserve someone who is relentless in their pursuit of you.
Have you found this kind of love? Let us know how your special someone pursues you every day. If you know someone who needs to know that they do indeed deserve to be pursued, pass this along to them.