Be In A Relationship With Someone Who Always Chooses You

Dec 12, 2018 by apost team

Who should you be dating? It seems like an easy question, right? You have your criteria of tall, dark, handsome, smart, funny, and all the other stereotypical check marks, but are you dating someone who’s willing to always choose you? This isn’t a dating check mark you want to ignore.

No matter what other options are on the table, your partner’s choice should always be you. Your partner shouldn’t get bored as they continually strive to learn every facet of your being from how your mind works to how your body moves.

Dating someone should mean they make loving you look easy, natural, automatic, and blissful. The thought of being with you and sharing a life together should thrill them beyond excitement. As such, they’ll always choose you.

They’ll never stop choosing you because they’re always in your corner. They’ll never give up on you, make you feel less than, or be selfish with their time and efforts. They’ll reaffirm your value when you need to hear and see it. They’ll be there through both the good days and the days when you feel down and out.

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If you’re dating the right person, you’ll never wonder or question your meaning to them. They’ll openly and unashamedly display their love in both words and actions. If necessary, they’ll exhaust themselves making their love known.

Dating someone who chooses you won't feel like a burden or weight. They’ll solidify your self-worth by always trying to lift you up, not break you down. In choosing you, they reaffirm you do matter and you are important.

They won’t just choose you when it’s easy and convenient, either. No, they’ll reliably and consistently choose you again and again.

Why? Choosing someone is a commitment. They’re saying, "my priorities are clear and in order, my love is steadfast, and my intentions are pure." It’s the silent admission of love. It’s the silent vow that you’re safe. It’s the silent belief that choosing each other enables you to tackle anything and everything life throws your way.

You deserve to be chosen and feel this level of love, support, and commitment that only comes from someone incapable of making any other choice.

Have you been chosen? Perhaps you know someone whose partner isn’t choosing them? Feel free to pass this article on to friends and family, and if this article moved you, let us know in the comment section.