8 Reasons Why You Will Regret Giving Up On A Great Woman

Dec 12, 2018 by apost team

There's that old saying that "you don't know what you have until it's gone." This is especially true when it comes to relationships. You're with a great woman and are used to her love. Yet it's that very fact that means you'll take her for granted. And then, just like that - she's gone. No one likes being taken for granted or treated poorly. When a great woman leaves your life, you'll regret it. You might not realize it at first but then her absence will really hit you. Here's why.

1. She Loved You Unconditionally

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A great woman loves without asking for anything in return. That's exactly what she gave you. It was a love without restrictions. She always knew you loved her, even if you weren't always great at showing it. This woman never asked for anything and was unselfish.

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2. You Had A Special Connection

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A rare connection like that doesn't come along very often. What the two of you shared was very special. You won't be able to connect with a new person the same way. Some call it a "spark" and that's exactly what it felt like. The two of you just clicked somehow. You fit like puzzle pieces and loved being together. Maybe that's why life without this woman feels so empty. It's hard to find someone that makes your life so complete.

3. No One Loves You As She Did

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Every relationship is unique. The one you had with her was perfect. The way she loved you was like nothing else. You'll find new love after she's gone, of course. But it won't be the same.

4. She Was Patient With You

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No matter how you treated her, she remained patient and gentle. But you were so quick to take advantage of it. You treated her poorly and always made a big deal out of her mistakes. And still she just seemed to take it. She never put up a fuss - even if you deserved it. If you fought, she always played fair.

She would point out your faults but in a way that made you think. She wanted you to be a better version of yourself. That's what she deserved, but you weren't able to provide it for her. She could only put up with you for so long. Eventually she just ran out of patience.

5. You Always Knew That You Could Never Do Better

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We always talk about finding "the one." That was something you scoffed at...until you met her. Suddenly all your other relationships didn't matter at all. You could spend forever with her. That used to seem like a silly idea, but she made it easy. This girl was perfect in every single way. But you had to go and ruin it. You let her leave.

You lost your chance to get her back. Now you'll have to deal with the consequences. It means a life alone, or with someone who'll always be second best. Your relationships after her just won't compare. You'll be full of regret. All because you had a great woman and just let her go.

6. You Could Talk About Anything With Her

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She was a safe space for you. If you brought up something difficult, she never judged you. Instead, she'd help you talk through it. You were free to share your thoughts and feelings. This woman was the perfect "sounding board." You could work out your problems with her by your side. Without her, life suddenly seems insurmountable.

You need to be able to figure life out on your own. She was full of great advice - you should have taken it to heart. This woman was trying to tell you how to improve yourself. You didn't do a good enough job, though.

7. You Always Had Fun Together

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Every day with this woman was an adventure. Any date was a great time. And even just hanging out was a joy. Now that she's gone, you realize how much effort she put into that. She always wanted to make sure that you were happy and safe. But unfortunately you couldn't give her the same. She knew she could do better and left you to find it.

8. She Took Care Of Your Every Need

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Your woman seemed to anticipate anything you wanted. It was almost like she could read your mind. Whenever you needed something, she was there to provide it for you. She put your wants and needs so far above her own. You were never grateful for any of it, though. And that's exactly why she left. A relationship is based on give and take. You took just a little too much.

Have you ever found the love of your life? Treat her well otherwise you'll see her walking away. What do you think ladies? Do you want to add to the list? Let us know your thoughts in the comment section below and pass this on to others who might need to read this!