8 Reasons Why A Woman Believes She Isn't Lovable

Nov 06, 2018 by apost team

She is strong. She is talented. She is independent. She knows what she wants and knows how to get it...except for love. She knows how to love, probably better than most, but she finds herself destroyed that no one is there loving her back. She has convinced herself that she will never be loved, and this is why.

Getting hurt is something that none of us want to experience. Once we are hurt, we tend to shy away from the things that hurt us in the first place. She has been hurt, a lot. She knows that if she opens up, she has that chance to be beaten down again.

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Her past haunts her and for a good reason. She doesn't want to experience that hurt again. She now protects herself by building walls all around her. These walls are very hard to break through and can only be broken if she will let them.

She is one that has a very complex mind. Simplicity isn't enough. She wants the biggest and the best. Her dreams are not lacking. It's not easy for her to be impressed by the average. Being with her is going to take a lot of time and energy. Patience is also a must.

She can be some sort of a puzzle that will take some time to figure out. She wants to know the answers to everything and will ask a lot of questions. She does this because she craves knowledge, not because she is questioning motives.

She knows the she is hard to love and this is why she thinks she won't find someone that will love her. She doesn't think there is anyone out there that will actually put up with her hardness or put in an effort to love like she wants.

Change isn't something that she is open to. Why would she change who she is? She can compromise with someone but that doesn't mean she needs to change who she is for someone else, and she won't. She isn't going to pretend to be someone she isn't.

Everything she has been through has made her who she is today. She isn't a pretty, little flower that is fragile. This girl is tough and knows how to handle herself. She knows that she doesn't need a man or anyone to better herself.

She knows that she is complete, just the way she is, with or without someone else. She does't want to be tamed or intimidated. Someone who will hold her back is not in her cards.

Because of this, she feels like she isn't meant to be with anyone, that she will never find someone. Because she can live without someone, she feels like she isn't meant to find that special someone or spend the rest of her life with anyone.

This girl knows what she wants and isn't willing to take less. She sees everyone else that has that eternal love, but she knows that the truth is underneath that "perfect" surface. This is not the fairytale she is looking for.

She may seem a little picky or like she is playing hard to get, but actually she just wants the best. She knows what her standards are when it comes to men and she definitely isn't going to date someone that has the flaws of a deal breaker.

She hates the way that dating is these days. She wants things to be the way they used to be long ago. She wants a guy who will act properly and hold the door open, or take her jacket.

She is convinced that this type of guy just doesn't exist anymore, so she has given up. She thinks that all that is left out there is one night stands or friends with benefits.

She doesn't care what other people do but she isn't about filling up her life with meaningless "relationships" that don't lead anywhere but the bedroom.

She wants that love like you used to see. She wants the love where the guy acts like he wants to be around her and spend all of his time with her. This girl wants a guy who isn't afraid to show her that he loves her and isn't afraid to put effort into a relationship. She wants someone who will treat her right and act like a real gentleman.

Even as tough as this girl is, she still wants that fairytale that all the other girls want. She doesn't want to be in a bland relationship where she loves someone. She wants to be in a relationship where she and he are so deep in love that everyone sees it. There is no doubt that they are head over heels in love with each other.

She wants this relationship to be her true fairytale. And, she doesn't want anything less than that. This girl wants the guy that is her soulmate but doesn't know if that's really a thing. She has convinced herself that this type of love really doesn't exist and it's never going to happen to her.

One more reason she doesn't think she will find love is because she isn't afraid to be herself. She is ok being alone and knows how to live the single life. She isn't going to date someone just to date them.

She will wait for the right guy and not put herself into a mess for no reason. She isn't afraid to wait either. She will wait until the right man comes along. But because she is willing to wait, time is beginning to grow longer and longer and she feels like she might not ever find love.

Are you a woman struggling to find love? Can you identify with any of these reasons? Let us know in the comments and don't forget to pass this on to all of your female friends!