7 Things To Think About Before Dating A Scorpio

Aug 22, 2018 by apost team

Are you currently in the dating pool?  Even if you don't give credibility to astrology, there is no denying that certain aspects of a person's personality affect how they relate to others.

If you are dating a Scorpio, then there are some things you need to know about this powerful person in order to appreciate and work with their strengths, as well as to harmonize and downplay their weaknesses.  It's all in how you relate to each other; here are some things to know about Scorpio:

You cannot control a Scorpio

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You should never try to control a partner in the first place, but headstrong Scorpio simply won't allow any kind of attempted manipulation.  They will first express their displeasure, then they will turn tail and run if your controlling behavior does not change. 

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Scorpios are very passionate people

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Scorpio is a very intense and passionate lover; this will come in handy when the candles go up and the lights go down!  This passion for life and for relationships does translate over into other areas too, so if you find yourself locking horns with your Scorpio, tread lightly, lest you get a little of their fiery temper thrown your way

Scorpios like an air of mystery

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If you want to keep your Scorpio interested, keep them guessing.  Don't open yourself up like a book right away; give them little bits and pieces of yourself so that they keep coming back for more.  Make them work for your affections, and they will be engaged and interested to learn more about you.

Scorpios are very loyal.

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Scorpios detest dishonesty and cheating in relationships.  They won't do it, and they definitely won't stand for it.  Be upfront and honest about your intentions, and if you gain the loyalty of your Scorpio, you are in a relationship for the long haul

Scorpios are fiery and feisty

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Scorpios, and you'll learn to appreciate all of the contrast that they have to offer

Scorpios do not need a partner

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Scorpios are very independent people, and they will be the first to tell you that you are not needed, but wanted, in a relationship. Don't expect them to become dependent on you--find your own identity and your own interests outside of your relationship, and neither one of you will feel stifled

You don't want to betray a Scorpio

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Hell hath no fury.......A Scorpio is not likely to take well to being betrayed in any area of your relationship.  They are slow to forgive, and they will not forget any injustices that befall them.  It is best to remain loyal and true when dealing with your Scorpio to avoid unnecessary conflict that will sour your relationship.

This information is not meant to scare you away from a relationship with your Scorpio, but to give you valuable tools to create the kind of great relationship that you want, free from conflict and undue stress.  Appreciate them for all that they are, and for the wonderful things they bring into your life.