7 Reasons Why I Don't Fear Being Single But Fear Dating The Wrong Person

Nov 30, 2018 by apost team

If you pause for a moment to consider the many factors that affect a relationship with someone, you will see the great risks involved. This is especially true when the relationship is of a romantic nature.

Another great question to ponder is why people sometimes attract people to them that bring nothing but pain to their lives. I have experienced many bad relationships in my life and did not desire to feel that type of pain again. I can also say honestly that I am not afraid to be single. However, I am scared of dating.

And following are the many reasons for why I feel this way!

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I am open, honest, and love to express myself when in a relationship. If my words are cut by a man each time I speak, it is not likely our relationship together will be long-lasting. I much rather be alone than with bad company.

I do not want to become a sex doll for a man that cares nothing about me. I will only make love to someone I genuinely care about. My happiness is more important to me than an orgasm.

It is not a big deal for me to sleep alone in my bed. There were other times in my life this thought made me sad. A much worse fate, in my opinion, is to share my bed with a person that cares nothing about me.

I know the old saying about eating and talking but I would like to chat a little with you if we dine together. When alone, I can put my earphones on and enjoy music while I eat. The bill will also be lower.

It is not a particularly great feeling when you are invited to a wedding and have no one to accompany you. I use to feel bad on these occasions but I now have no problem with this.

I will attend these events and fully enjoy the music, dancing, and eating. And to make things better, there will be no narcissistic guy with me to ruin the moment.

Anyone that has suffered the agony of many first dates knows exactly why I loathe the dating scene. I have no desire to bite my nails while waiting for my date to arrive. I do not enjoy ten changes of clothes for a person that really doesn't care how I look.

I do not like staying awake all night waiting to see if he will call back. I have no plans to disrupt my life for someone who is undeserving of my time. I prefer a single life to someone that does not provide what I need.

I admit I prefer the role of a drama queen to going with a flow that will eventually lead to heartache. Everyone that has been through the pain of a brutal break-up will understand the pain I refer to.

I am happy with myself and do not need the presence of another person to validate my being.

What do you think about the relationship views of the woman in the story? Do you or anyone you know have similar views? Send this article to friends and family members. The conversations that result will be interesting.