6 Of The Most Attractive Behaviors (And How You Can Have Them)

Jul 22, 2018 by apost team

You might wonder how you can make yourself more attractive, but being attractive is about more than just looks. In fact, your personality can be even more important. The way you act and how you behave with other people is an important part of how attractive you are.

Being attractive is about who you are as a whole person, and whether you are a man or a woman, the six traits below are all ways that you can make yourself more attractive to others.

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There are people who, when you are talking to them, seem to be waiting for nothing more than a break in the conversation so they can interject their own opinion. Other people genuinely pay attention. Listening is not a passive activity. Active listening and asking the person follow up questions make people feel understood and helps form strong bonds.

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Kindness is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. It creates a sense of positivity that flows to other people. Furthermore, behaving in a more positive way makes you feel more positive and that draws people closer to you. People are attracted to altruistic behavior over mean-spiritedness, and when they see you act thoughtfully, they will be more attracted to you.

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Mood-enhancing endorphins are released when you smile. These make you feel good. Smiling is such an easy thing to do, and it produces a boost in your mood and that of others. The positivity it creates around you far exceeds the effort it takes to make this attractive gesture.

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Laughing releases endorphins just as smiling does, and it attracts people in the same way. People feel good when they see other people laughing, and they find the laughing person attractive.

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No one wants to be around someone who seems consumed with self-loathing. When you project an air of confidence, it makes you look attractive and attracts other people to you. Not only that, but when you seem confident, it builds the confidence of others as well. All this makes people feel more positively toward you and makes you seem more attractive.

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As important as it is to be a good listener, you also need to be good at understanding other people's body language. Empathy is an important quality because it allows you to detect what other people want without them having to ask. When you are able to give it to them, they will see you as more attractive. Your interactions with them will also be healthy and positive.

Not everyone agrees on what makes a person physically attractive, but what makes a person attractive in other ways is universally admired. If you are concerned about whether people find you attractive, examine your behaviors and how others respond to you. By changing the way you act, you can make yourself more attractive and create more positive feelings for yourself and with others.

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