15 Signs You Have The Best Husband Ever

Dec 27, 2018 by apost team

If you’re married, you know that some days can be better than others. But through sickness and health, it’s likely that your husband has helped you through life and picked you up when you’ve been knocked down.

If you think you have the best husband, check for these 15 signs. If he does any of the following, you have a winner on your hands and you should never let go!

1. He’s open to teaching as well as learning with you.

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If he often teaches you about subjects that are interesting to him, it means that he wants you to enjoy them with him. He should also be willing to learn about things you’re passionate about. Sharing your passions and hobbies together can go a long way when it comes to staying together forever.

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2. He asks you for advice.

You should be your husband’s best friend before you’re his wife. He should be able to come to you with any struggles or obstacles that he’s facing. He wants to listen to your advice and is eager to see what you would do in any given situation because he trusts your wisdom.

3. He overuses “I love you.”

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If your love language is words of affirmation, it’s likely that you need to be reminded of how much you’re loved on a daily basis. If your husband overuses the phrase “I love you,” you have a winner on your hands. Validation can be key to maintaining a relationship.

4. He cares and worries for you.

Your husband should be somebody who has your back no matter what. If he shows concern about your life and always worries about your safety, you’re in the right relationship. It can be hard for men to show emotion, but if he expresses these things to you, he’s the one.

5. He is always complimentary.

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If hearing how much he loves you isn’t enough, a great husband will always pay you compliments. If you’re having a bad day, these kind words can uplift your spirits. If he lets you know how happy you make him and how beautiful you are every day, he’s a keeper.

6. He is generous.

A partner should never be selfish in a relationship if they want it to work. Giving gifts is one thing, but they should also be generous with their time and energy. If your husband often puts you before himself and is generous, giving and selfless, you should hold on tight.

7. He pushes you towards your dreams.

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A true amazing husband will always help you reach your goals. They’ll never be jealous of your success, but rather will push you towards accomplishing your dreams and aspirations. If he encourages you to keep going, you know he’s the one.

8. He knows when to apologize.

There’s no such thing as a perfect partner, and there will inevitably be times when he needs to apologize. But a true partner always knows when they have done something wrong, and a great husband will apologize profoundly when they’ve dissatisfied you.

9. He still tries to win you over every day.

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Many relationships lose the spark that exists at the beginning of the relationship because partners stop trying to win each other over. If your husband still flirts with you and acts like he’s still trying to give you butterflies every day, you’re in a relationship that you should never let go of.

10. He works hard for the both of you.

He goes to work every morning with a smile on his face knowing that by doing his job, he’s supporting your family and you. This doesn’t just mean he takes his career seriously. He also has to work hard to keep the relationship going and always puts in the effort required to keep you happy.

11. He appreciates his mother.

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Men who put their families ahead of everything are men that you should hold onto. If you pay attention to how he treats his mother, it can tell you a lot about who he is. If he treats his family and especially his mom with grace and kindness, you have a wonderful and loving partner.

12. He helps you evolve into the best version of yourself.

A real husband will never want you to stay stagnant in life. They always want the best for you, meaning that they’ll help you improve in areas that you want to improve in and lead you towards excelling in life. Not only do they make you want to be a better person and inspire you, but they’ll help you work towards that goal.

13. He makes anything fun.

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Spending your entire lives together can get boring and habitual. Who does the dishes, who cleans the bathroom, and who grocery shops can all be questions that make couples fight. But if you have someone that can compromise and make anything fun no matter how mundane it is, you’ll be set for the rest of your life.

14. He knows how to communicate.

People who have been married for decades will often tell you that communication is key when it comes to keeping a relationship stable. If he doesn’t know how to communicate his wants and needs, the relationship will never work. Being able to talk to each other about anything is an important piece of a marriage.

15. He appreciates your time together.

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Eternity is a long time to spend with somebody. You may take the moments you have together for granted because you spend so much time together. But if you have someone that genuinely loves being around you and appreciates every second that you get together, keep them around.

Marriage isn’t easy, and there’s no such thing as a perfect partner. But if your husband does any of these 15 things, you have an amazing man on your hands and you should never let go. How does your husband match up with these 15 signs? What else do you think is important in a relationship? Let us know - and feel free to pass this on to all your married girlfriends!