10 Things That Happen When A Woman Loses Interest In Her Relationship

Jan 03, 2019 by apost team

Every relationship is different. This is one of the things that make being part of a couple special. No one has the same inside jokes or love story you two share.

Unfortunately, there may be a time when your special woman changes and begins to lose interest in the relationship. Here are 10 common signs to look for.

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Every relationship is different. This is one of the things that make being part of a couple special. No one has the same inside jokes or love story you two share. Unfortunately, there may be a time when your special woman changes and begins to lose interest in the relationship. Here are 10 common signs to look for.

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1. She Stops Getting Jealous

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Jealousy can be a problem in any relationship. Many women become angry or upset when they see their man flirting with another woman. Some women become jealous even when their partner is having a conversation with another woman that’s purely platonic. But if she is suddenly no longer bothered when you are texting your female friends or spending more time with them, this could be a signal there might be an issue in your relationship.

2. She Gives One-Word Replies to Your Messages

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Some women love to have long, drawn-out text conversations with their partner because it makes them feel close, special, and prioritized. If your girl is suddenly giving one-word replies like “Yes,” “Sure,” or even “Whatever” to your texts, she could be angry with you or simply losing interest in the relationship.

3. She’s Not Annoyed When You’re Busy

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“You don’t pay enough attention to me!” is a common fight. Everyone likes to feel like they matter.

Many women become irritated when they feel like their partner is taking them for granted or flat-out ignoring them. But if your job is taking up a lot of your time and she doesn't seem to care that you're not around as much, chances are she's losing interest in the relationship.

4. She Stops Being as Affectionate

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Being caring, nurturing, and physically affectionate are qualities that seem to come naturally to women. It can be a red flag if she's no longer as affectionate as she used to be. You might question why she's not touching or hugging you as much. It could be that her feelings about the relationship could have changed.

5. She Doesn’t Want You to Take Her Home Anymore

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Spending time together doing fun things or domestic tasks are part of the "glue" that holds a relationship together. These are opportunities to reconnect, decompress, and share what's going on in your lives. Suddenly, she's no longer interested in doing these things together. She'd rather spend time by herself and doesn't seem to want your company as much anymore. Or, after a dinner date, she refuses to let you take her home. These are signals she might be starting to lose interest in the relationship.

6. You Don’t Annoy Her as Much

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Nobody is perfect. It's natural to be a little annoyed by some of the things your partner does. Once upon a time she might have complained when you forgot to take out the trash again or made a mistake. Now she doesn't bat an eye or say a word. Does your girlfriend suddenly seem more patient than she used to be? She might just not be as committed to your relationship anymore.

7. She Doesn’t Laugh as Much at Your Jokes

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Women are usually attracted to funny guys. She used to laugh at your corny jokes and guffaw at your hilarious stories. Now your silly antics, like a spot-on impression of your boss, don't even gain a giggle. She starts talking about one of her friends and the jokes they tell, and she seems to be laughing a lot without you. This could all be a sign that she's lost interest in you and is no longer drawn to your funny personality.

8. The Intimacy Between You Gets Rare

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Passionate moments become rarer because she starts making excuses that she's tired or has to get up early for work. Or, when the two of you do become intimate, you sense that she's not super invested in the moment. She no longer wants to cuddle or makes a pillow "wall" between you. These can all be red flags that she's become bored with the relationship.

9. She Says Everything’s Fine When it’s Not

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It's pretty common for women to say "it's fine" when their actions indicate that they feel anything but. If this becomes a regular occurrence when you try to talk about your relationship and the issues the two of you are facing, it might be a sign she's unwilling to work it out. If she's not invested in patching things up and resolving your disputes, chances are she's not into you like she used to be.

10. She isn’t Sorry When She’s Wrong

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In the past, she may have worked to patch things up and was fast to apologize if she was in the wrong. Does she now act like she doesn't regret how she's made you feel? She may have lost interest in the relationship.

It's natural for relationships to sometimes face rough patches. Feelings and people can change, but it doesn't mean that the way your girlfriend has treated you hasn't been hurtful. You can work to put your relationship back on track and win her affections again. You can also be optimistic that it could be just a phase. However, if none of these things work, it may be over between you.

Have you ever gone through an experience like this? How did it impact you? Let us know what you think - and pass it along to your friends!