10 Reasons Your Big Sister Is The Most Important Woman You’re Ever Going To Meet In Life

Apr 03, 2019 by apost team

Whether you already know this or you will find out about it the future, your big sister is the best friend you might have in your life. Sometimes it may not seem so and you might hold grudges against each other, but she will surely be with you through times tough and pleasant. The unconditional love that older sisters have for their younger siblings only grows with time and can be seen when people go their separate ways. Here is why your big sister is your best protector.

1. She is the closest friend you have.

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Your sister was the first friend you had in your life. She was there when you were just born and couldn't even talk. She has seen you grow and inevitably will feel a very strong bond to you that will continue through time. Because the two of your spent a lot of time together growing up, she is the one who is most familiar with you.

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2. She knows your relationship with your family.

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She is part of the family and knows what is happening at home.

She is the one that is familiar with the pressure you might experience with parents.This is why she can really be empathetic towards you and know how to help you when you truly need it.

3. She earns your trust.

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Your elder sister is the one that has seen you when you are most comfortable. You do not have to pretend in front of her to be something you are not. She was the one who has seen all your embarrassing moments and kept them to herself. You know that you can trust her as she is the one who you can be truly yourself with.

4. Her wardrobe is available to you.

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You know that your sister is the person whose clothes you can always use in a time of need. If you don't have just the right top for those pants, you can always rely on using one shirt from your sister's closet. You know that, in the end, she is OK with it.

5. She shares her experience.

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Your sister is a little older than you and experiences things that you have yet to experience. Because of this, she can give you valuable input when you are going through something in your life that she already has been through.

6. Her home will always be open to you.

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Even if you do not live together anymore, the memory of being together as children is still strong in the two of you. Even if she lives on the other part of the country, you can always depend that you will have a place to stay when you visit her. The familiar comfort of your childhood will always be in her home for you.

7. She is always real and open.

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You have known each other since you were born. You know and can tell when your sister is not being honest. That is why she is going to always be true to you and talk just as she thinks.

She is not the one that will sugarcoat things for you to feel better. She wants the best for you and will make sure that you know what she wants you to know about it. Sometimes she is going to tell you harsh truths, but they will always be the ones that will get you out of a tough situation. If you need someone to tell you the truth, you can always rely on your older sister.

8. She roots for you.

Your sister is the one that will be truly happy for your success. To her, your success will be her own success. She is the one who believes in your potential and will do anything to help you see it and realize it. She knows that you have been through many things and that you are capable of more. That is why she will always coax and push you to reach your highest potential.

9. She is the best counselor.

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Your sister has more life behind her and is more experienced in things that you are not. Everything that you are experiencing was probably experienced by her before. Why go through something on your own if you need help when you can just counsel with her on your situation? She can be the person you go to when you need to double check a situation or just get something torturing you out of yourself.

10. She will be there when no one else is.

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Even if you do not have anyone by your side, your sister will always be the person who is there for you. She can be the one you turn to whenever there is anything you want to share but don't have anyone around. Just give her a call, and maybe she can give you original input to your problems or situation.

Does all of this sound like your sister? Which of these are true of your elder sibling?