10 Reasons Why Even A Woman Who Loves You Madly Might Leave You Forever
Feb 18, 2019 by apost team
Everything seems perfect. She loves you. You know she does, and she's so magical and beautifully unpredictable. You think your world is spinning on its axis and then suddenly, something throws it off kilter. She packs up and leaves.
We've put together a list of ten reasons why she may be totally and completely in love with you and yet still choose to walk out the door.
10. She Gives and Never Gets
A relationship is a two-way street. In other words, each of you has to want to be there and has to be giving. You may not each give the same amount all the time, but you can't always take and take and take and never give in return. If you do, she won't want to stay around.
9. You Have Too Many Demands
"I really wish you were in a good mood", "Make sure you go to the gym", "You probably shouldn't eat that", "Why can't you just get along with my friends?", "You really should read the news instead of that newsstand fluff", "You should learn to cook something different" - Any of this sound familiar? If you are demanding too much, your requirements could push her away.
8. She Feels Like You're Looking At Other Women
You didn't cheat. That's great. But, you looked at another woman when she walked by. It's not always about the physical act of cheating. Roaming eyes will make a woman feel like you aren't dedicated to her either.
7. Your Control and Trust Issues Are Tiresome
She has to ask you to spend time with her gal pals. She has to text you while she is out with them. She has to check in with you regularly. Can we talk about how overbearing this is? If you are suspicious of everything she does on social media and in real life and if you expect her to report everything to you, she is not going to be happy. If you don't trust her - you shouldn't be with her in the first place.
6. You Don't Seem Very Reliable
A woman needs to know she can depend on you. She could be the most independent woman in the world, but when she needs you, she needs you. This is especially true during certain times in her life like she just had a baby. If you don't make her feel like she can lean on you when she needs to, then she may be gone.
5. She Feels You Don't Understand Her World
There's a honeymoon phase to any relationship. During that phase, you just can't get enough of each other and the endorphins are in overdrive. Everything is perfect. Eventually, that feeling will wear off, and if you are from two different worlds, this could lead to problems. She may come to realize your friends, family, hobbies, and lifestyle are just completely different from hers.
4. Immaturity Is an Issue
A childlike smile can be sweet and attractive. Pitching a fit because you can't get the newest gaming system is a whole different story. If you are constantly acting like a child, how could she ever see you as someone to be a father to her future children?
3. Negativity Seems to Flow from You
She has things she wants to do in life and dreams she wants to fulfill. If you aren't happy or you just really don't want to do anything new then you are probably holding her back. Doubting her dreams just because you are always negative will make her want to move on so she can enjoy her life.
2. You Don't Know What You Want
If you change your mind all the time about little things, how can she depend on you for the big things? If you don't know what you want or present yourself like you don't she'll feel like she can never make any plans with you.
1. You Have Different Plans for the Future
For the most part, we all have a fairly clear image of what we want in life. If your image and hers are completely opposite, this can cause big problems. That's not to say everything has to be perfectly the same, but if she wants to go to Paris to paint and you want to stay in your hometown, your relationship probably won't work out.
What do you think about these ten things that might make a woman leave? Do you agree or do you have anything to add? Let us know in the comments and be sure to pass this list on to your friends - we can all learn from each other!