10 Reasons Libras Make Loving Hard

Feb 16, 2018 by apost team

A Libra is never going to be the easiest person to love. We have too many characteristics of independence and can be very introverted. If you can figure us out, however, we can be excellent companions. Here are 10 reasons why loving a Libra is hard.

Libras don't wear their emotions on their sleeve. Instead, we tend to back away from strong emotional displays. We see them as an imbalance in our balanced world. We might not always be receptive to kissing and cuddling. Sometimes we just want the company of our partner, not the sexual advances. This can make our partners feel inadequate or unwanted. 

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A Libra can be so focused on appearances that they overlook someone's inner beauty. As a result, we are prone to judging the outer beauty of our partners. When you look your best, no problem. When you don't, we'll probably let you know. The way in which we let you know might not be very sensitive, either.

Please don't count on us to make decisions. Just trying to decide where to have dinner can be difficult for a Libra. We also tend to express a lot of buyer's remorse because we are impulsive. We might get you something nice and then regret spending the money. Don't take it personally. That's just who we are.

Libras can have expensive tastes. The thing is, we can't always afford those tastes. As a result, we sometimes overspend. You'll have to get used to the bank account growing a little thin now and again. You'll also need to remind us that including you more in our indulgences might make them easier to swallow.

Libras are not known for being reliable creatures. Take the promises we make with a grain of salt. We'll keep the important ones, but we might forget to pick up milk while we're out running our selfish errands. Even though we are basically unreliable, we do have a strong sense of loyalty to our partners and will move mountains for them.

Instead of choosing sides, a Libra will often try to maintain harmony and peace by being diplomatic. This can sometimes hurt our partners. They can feel as though we are not taking their side when we should be. Our sense of resolving conflict involves attempts to calm things down and let cooler heads prevail.
 

A Libra has to have time alone. We will go stir crazy if we don't get it. This can be hard for partners to understand. Sometimes we act withdrawn when all we really want is some time alone. It isn't that we don't like being with you. Being alone is what helps us preserve our all-important sense of balance and harmony.

As the scales of our sign indicate, we are lovers of justice. We get riled when we perceive someone getting the shaft. As a result, our political opinions can be very strong. We will lecture you for hours on why we feel something is wrong, and we can get frustrated if we feel that you aren't getting us.

Actually, the truth is that Libras crave balance. We don't always achieve it. When things are out of balance we get annoyed. This can often come across as obsessive-compulsive behavior. We aren't being OCD when the bathroom is in disarray. We're just stressing because it throws off our sense of order. Libras are definitely at their best when everything runs like a well-oiled machine.

Libras don't apologize for their charming side. They embrace it. Being charming opens a lot of doors for us. You'll sometimes think we are flirting with someone when we're just being ourselves. This characteristic also makes us something of a fixer. We are adept at doing whatever we can to smooth things over to our liking.

While Libras can be hard to love, the effort is worth it. Share this with your friends so that they can better understand the Libra in their own life.