These 10 Uncomfortable Signs Mean You're Actually Becoming Who You're Supposed To Be

Sep 28, 2018

Humans are always in a state of personal development. Even those who aren't actively pursuing this course will continuously learn more about themselves and their place in the world. This process is incremental and requires a lot of patience. While extra effort and intervention don't hurt, we cannot always force the process of personal growth.

Some aspects of our development come with time instead of forced with effort and persistence. Many people are surprised to encounter discomfort and challenges on the road to becoming their true selves. Just like a fine diamond that is pressed out of coal, these challenges help us to grow as people.

Here are 10 uncomfortable signs that you're actually becoming the person you're supposed to be.

Nobody likes the feeling of isolation. Even though having time alone is healthy for everyone, spending too much time without friends and family is very difficult. Individuals who are on a quest of personal development often encounter bouts of isolation and loneliness. These people tend to be more independent and self-reliant than their counterparts. Instead of relying on others for help and support, these individuals would rather solve problems on their own. This can-do attitude often leads to isolation, but it also is a great step in the direction of personal growth.

Everyone in the world experiences personal issues. Some people have major complications such as addictions, phobias, bad habits and more. Even those who suffer from minor issues can be tormented with the way these problems are limiting their potential. When you're aware of these personal issues, they're easier to overcome and correct.

This awareness and knowledge is a sign that you're becoming the person you're supposed to be. Individuals who have no desire for personal growth won't even bother to confront their personal issues. They would rather live with these problems than face them head-on.

Every human life is impacted by relationships. Friends, family, colleagues and even random people we meet on the street have a major influence on our daily life. Those interested in personal development be must be willing to take a deep look at their relationships and decide how each is impacting their path in life. Negative relationships distract you from becoming the person you're supposed to be, while the positive relationships support you in the process. Knowing the difference is key to personal growth.

You don't automatically distrust people, but you've been betrayed enough to understand how the world can work. This doesn't mean that you view the world as a cynic with a negative attitude. Instead, it simply means that you're selective and diligent about whom you trust. Becoming the person you're supposed to be means taking risks and making sacrifices. These risks are much easier to take when you're surrounded by trustworthy friends.

If you constantly think that life is boring, that means there is more you desire to achieve. While everyone wants to be happy, too many people are confusing it with complacency. Accepting the status quo of your life isn't positive if it doesn't match your true dreams. Individuals on the path of self-improvement will always find the same routines too monotonous and mind-numbing. Instead, they will always be looking for something different and more challenging.

Although there are great days, you don't look at the world through rose-colored glasses. You understand that life comes with inherent highs and lows on a daily basis. Instead of fighting or avoiding these feelings, you're able to accept heartbreaks, failures, losses and disappointments. You understand that these negative feelings are only temporary and can even help you become your true self.

You have a never-ending list of things you want to experience and accomplish. 24 hours is just not enough time in a day. You are constantly stealing hours from the night to be able to accomplish more during the day. With so many goals, it feels like you're being pulled in a hundred different directions.

You always go to bed wishing you had completed more. Whether its spending more time with friends and family or practicing a particular skill, you dedicate every second of the day towards a particular aspiration.

In an effort to become who you're supposed to be, you often reflect on the past. You acknowledge and regret all of your past mistakes and which there was some way to make up for them. At times, your strongest wish is for things to return to the way they were. It is difficult for you to accept change that resulted from poor choices or mistakes.

However, you also realize that fighting these changes isn't helpful either. Accepting the reality of past mistakes is a necessary step on the path towards personal growth. You understand that focusing too much on the past detracts from the present.

Although growing up comes with a lot of freedom, you constantly miss what it was like to a child. Everything seemed to be more safe and secure. There were rarely feelings of uncertainty or sadness. You remember your childhood as one of the happiest times in your life. Living away from friends and family is difficult, but you don't want to give up. You understand that these struggles can help you in becoming who you're supposed to be.

Even though you understand the importance of focusing on the past, you can't help but obsess about the future. You're uncertain about what the future holds. Although you're putting effort towards building an ideal future, you still worry about the uncertainty. Even in the face of these fears, you're still able to take life one day at a time.

Did you relate to this article? If so, you might be becoming who you truly are meant to be. Show this article to your friends and family to help them make sense of these confusing, uncomfortable signs!