It Hurts A Lot, But I Don't Want To Be With You Anymore

Dec 13, 2018

Sometimes, not being with the person you love will hurt like hell. However, it's something you have to do so that you can be happy.

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There will be times when you think of the person you once loved. When you're alone, you might think about the future with that person and what could have been. There will even be times when you have images of that person in your head.

Even though the relationship is over, you'll put the two of you back together in your mind so that you still have a small hope of being with that person again. Most of the time, you'll think about the things that didn't even happen and that you wanted to happen. Give yourself those moments, but remind yourself that those moments won't happen in the future with that person because that time of your life is over.

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When you're trying to put someone out of your mind that you once loved, it can hurt like hell because you're trying to push aside meeting that person in the first place. Instead of trying to forget that person, just think about how to live without the person in your head because this is where the dreams begin.

It won't be easy to let the person go who you once loved. There aren't any books or songs, and you can't rewind time to keep from meeting the person. There's no one who can say the right words to make you just forget all of the moments you shared with that person. It's something you have to do on your own. It will hurt like hell, but you have to let the person go to be happy.

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You were the one who let the other go, so you have to deal with getting the thoughts out of your head in your own time instead of what others feel is suitable. Love was something that became a negative emotion. It wasn't the happy life that you wanted. When people begin hurting the ones they claim to love, it's time to let them go for the better.

The relationship that you had was a lesson that you have to learn from, keeping in mind that it was never something that was supposed to be forever. You're going to miss him. You're going to want him back. However, you can't be with the person who you don't deserve and who doesn't love you.

Have you ever been in a relationship like this? Tell us your experiences and thoughts. It might help others to find bliss in their lives! Also, pass this on to anyone you know who needs to read this!